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May 10 @ 2:42 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
jules280


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Do guys really not like girls who sleep with them too quickly in general? If so, does it ruin or lessen the chances for her to be with him? (don't ask why I'm asking :))
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May 10 @ 6:34 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
sy721


Posts: 65
Thing is you cannot win in this situation...If a woman sleeps with a guy straight away, he will possibly brand her in his own mind as 'easy.' but also a woman who may have been 'easy' or fast at sleeping with people in her past, may see you as potential partner/relationship material and make you work for it, leading you to think she is not 'easy' and likes time to know the person, as alot of women fear being used and left if they give out easily...so we never really know the person anyway!! If the man thinks she gave out too easily, alot of times he will go and find new prey, sometimes leaving her feeling used, low esteem and degraded..depending on her attitude...
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May 10 @ 11:15 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
swingpup


Posts: 4,039
Oh course they do, one is only able to speak for themselves, each individuals opinion shall of course differ.


Here is an example scenario; You meet a woman, she appears to be a strong 7 or higher, you click, you enjoy her intellect, her demeanor, her past as well as her future goals, there is a physical attraction, etc., etc., She is a "must do." You meet a few times and finally the moment of "ecstasy" has arrived.


What do you do if she is unable to pass the "sniff test"? (hell, that ends it right there..LOL) What do you do if her mother taught her and she believes that the only time she touches her "privates" is to wipe? What do you do when she kisses per opening her mouth up approximately 2 cm and no tongue action? What do you do when she totally dislikes receiving or providing oral? For me personally that would be a "Bye Bye now" moment. A little more diplomacy then that of course.


Now, if one would spend significant time in this type of scenario you end up not only wasting her time but your time as well. On the other hand the moment of "ecstasy" arrives and all is great........Does she have a chance of a LT situation? Of course she does.


Sex being important to many in a relationship, get that out of the way early. Either both are sexually comfortable, compatible and totally satisfied with the other as well as the situation or they are not.


I think nothing less of a woman that desires to "Tango" on the first date then one that "Tangos" for an example of the Third. Sexual incompatibility is for many a deal breaker from the get go.
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May 10 @ 2:11 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 5,802
where do "the shots" come into this scenario?
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May 10 @ 2:36 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
1stsignofspring


Posts: 14,841
That's what they drink before they become "easy"
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May 10 @ 8:56 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
jamminjerry


Posts: 3,607
as for me, the easy gals are the ones who don't play games and the hard gals are the ones who do. at my age, we have heard and been played with most of the games. logic implies i will know if i have any interest in the gal after the first date. its all about playing games! i will continue to take my chances with the "easy" gal. but! i am old and tired of games. there are lots of young folks out there that enjoy the games, or they would not endure them. we be jammin
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May 10 @ 10:32 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
burnslikethesun


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do easy girls have a shot?
they call it anti Biotics
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May 10 @ 11:33 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 9,749
I'm not "easy" and I don't play games. I just know what I won't do (anymore). f***ing right away got me nowhere except to be thought of as just something that could be f***ed and not respected.
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May 11 @ 7:03 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
Automotor


Posts: 234
Bring over some beers and we can have a few and f***. If it goes beyond that depends on whether we get along good or not. You also have to have good taste in brews, I like top flight brands like Bud or Schlitz, not none of that Old Milwaukee or Ice House crap.
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May 11 @ 3:21 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
michedkel


Posts: 4,685
I've know some who had a shot of tequila, Jack Daniels or maybe Chivas Regal.
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May 11 @ 10:23 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
minky


Posts: 235
This is the year 2008 , whe is this sexist crap going to end
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May 11 @ 10:24 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
minky


Posts: 235
This is the year 2008 , when is this sexist crap going to end
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May 12 @ 8:02 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 5,802
double shot....
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May 12 @ 1:02 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
swingpup


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"Of My Babies Love"
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May 12 @ 5:49 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
Heaveninawildflower


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One of the nicer things about getting old has been the fact that recognizing when there's really a connection happens a heck of a lot quicker for me...I'm definitely 'easy' for the right man and 'impossible' for one who's not...my SO and I got into the sack pretty damned quick a year ago, and we've been equally quick pretty much every time we've seen each other since then...

So, a shot at a really satisfying relationship? Yep, I'd sure say so, but it was nearly two years and a whole lot of first dates for each of us when we met, and he was just as reluctant to jump in the sack with someone he didn't feel was a good match as I was.
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May 12 @ 6:27 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
loisday


Posts: 1,338
I'm definitely 'easy' for the right man and 'impossible' for one who's not


Spot on, Heaven.......................
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May 12 @ 6:30 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
BeachCrete


Posts: 6,970
well most guys would put them at the "front" of the line
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May 12 @ 6:40 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
marylou


Posts: 9,780
....in not easy for either..........
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May 13 @ 6:22 AM do easy girls have a shot?    
michedkel


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Have a shot at what?
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May 13 @ 2:32 PM do easy girls have a shot?    
marylou


Posts: 9,780
.....I meant *I'm not easy for either*........typo.
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