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| May 21, 2008 @ 12:34 AM |
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Aldian
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I have covered I am a virgin yes, but I was wondering about how women feels about meeting virgins. I have met a few who didn't seem that interested, I guess it was because I am one. I imagine this question has been brought up before, thank you.
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| May 27, 2008 @ 10:24 PM |
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SKIDELZ
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I would not feel very good about being with a virgin .... In fact every time a guy has told me he was a virgin I remember cringing ... Im twenty five , the last guy , who I actually know very well is twenty three .... I couldnt date him ....
It is not just that you dont know what your doing there is a list of other reasons I would not date a virgin .... infact if I was one I wouldnt tell anyone .................... 
the older you are , and still a virgin the worse it is
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| May 28, 2008 @ 2:34 AM |
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Aldian
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Well it's about bloody frickin time someone has responded to this question, I've began to give up hope. Well thank you Skidelz, Lol. It's just something I was just curious about and wanted to get other peoples input on it.
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| May 28, 2008 @ 3:00 AM |
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SunBabe
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~grin~ I'm guessing that the lack of response has been because it's been years or even many decades since that's been an issue or even a passing thought to most of us. 
I do know that while my son had a couple of "encounters" during high school, he kind of wished he'd waited for the girl he cared about and eventually dated for three years during and after college.
The funny thing is that all of his buds assumed he was MrStudmeister because all the girls wanted to date him. He didn't bother to set the guys straight. LOL. He said that at least he knew that they liked him for himself and not just his bedroom tricks. 
(Of course this was 10 years ago -- during a time when "just say no" was accepted and respected among his peers.)
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| May 28, 2008 @ 11:38 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,955
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the older you are , and still a virgin the worse it is
I'm not a virgin obviously but I'd like to ask why you say this.
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| May 28, 2008 @ 2:08 PM |
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sy721
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One problem is also that you may save yourself for that 'special' person whom you want to be your 1st, yet you are more than likely not your special ones special one!! if that makes sense...So basically you are never 'your' firsts 1st!!!!
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| May 29, 2008 @ 11:46 AM |
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Fender
Posts: 8,513
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There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. It shows that you have control...And maybe you just haven't met the right one yet.
...I wouldn't blurt it out on a first date or first email though, I'd wait for an appropriate time.
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| May 30, 2008 @ 8:03 AM |
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marylou
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FENDER.........I agree with you. I am a virgin of sorts........even tho I have had 2 children......LOL. But have never let a man *go the whole hog* with me.......mainly because I like to keep my dignity and self respect.........and dont want to give myself to anyone........specially some *fly by nighter*......AAAAAAAAAND.....I dont give a hoot what anyone thinks of me. Think its a nice gift to give someone......that you havent done the circuit.....so to speak.....JMO.
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| May 31, 2008 @ 12:28 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,482
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I'm not a virgin obviously but I'd like to ask why you say this.
let me clarify ...
for the record ... there is nothing wrong with being a virgin ..
but there are two types of virgins ( male wise )
A) the virgin who is saving himself for the right person , or for moral and or religious beliefs .
which is great !! they should be applauded !!!
then there is type 2
B) the virgin who has never grown enough socially to get any , the one who has tried and tried ... is 22 , 23 , 24 ... 30 ..... and still a virgin ... not by choice but because
a) they never face society long enough to develope relationships
b) they never find the nerve to move past first base cause they freak out or are not mature enough to get there
c) there is something wrong with them dexelopmentally , emotionally or mentally ...
its generally not something someone who is looking for an experianced man would be looking for and I personally dont want to raise more than the boy I gave birth to and I dont want to be the one to show them how to have sex ... how to make a woman feel good .... at that stage sexually they are also still very into themselves .... I was there when I was a teen but I dont want to go back to that ....
( I know two of them .. one 24 and one 22 and they both cyber ... really want to do it .. but dont have the social experience or nerve , or maturity level to get there )
both of them are very good friends of mine ... but relationship wise it would never work ... one is currently " in love " with me.... but see thats another thing .. they havent gone through enough to know what real love is ... have felt no kill your self heart ache and its just not for me 
and your welcome ... I think no one really wanted to be the first to post so I did i saw it had been sitting there
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| May 31, 2008 @ 10:13 AM |
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zazazabuza
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Everyones diffrent, ive met girls that have said they think that being a virgin is "hot". You just gotta find the right person is all, or not talk about your sexual experiences lol.
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| May 31, 2008 @ 10:50 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Skidelz, I understand now.
I know two like that as well. One is 24 and the other is 29. One of them is "in love" with me but at the same time is addicted to porn and cyber sex
and the other one is addicted to strip clubs and hits on anything with breasts and that vaguely resembles a female.
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| May 31, 2008 @ 10:59 AM |
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SKIDELZ
Posts: 1,482
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yes the ones I know are the same way ... very much adicted to porn and cyber sex ....
I know them from a role play site ... I admin there .... its real time and mail ... but everything is written out ... every smile every movement , battles and day to da y living ,... so they get so adicted to the " real ness" of the cyber they believe they will have no problem in the bed ....
but it only looks good on paper ... its different
in cases like that I think women are left asking themselves .. ok .... why is this person "still" a virgin ...
and are you the one who wants to find out ?
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 12:05 AM |
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Kenn159
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I know someone that would fall into your B category.
He is in his early 30's and a virgin; he is a big time video gamer so I guess he gets his fix through fantasy.
To each his own, but would never be the life that I would choose.
To be with a women is one of the greatest wonders on this planet.
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 8:51 AM |
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SaintBacon
Posts: 2,130
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Amen Kenn, Amen! 
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 9:35 AM |
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CathyCRN
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I've never been with a woman...does that make me a virgin too
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 10:00 AM |
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Silver1961
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Don't know about that virgin stuff, but you're very cute  
I'd take ya to Virginia anytime you like 
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 10:10 AM |
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CathyCRN
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| Jun 27, 2008 @ 11:09 PM |
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Automotor
Posts: 258
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Hey guy, just get some Vasilene and troll around down by a gay bar, someone will cure that virgin stuff for you.
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| Jun 28, 2008 @ 12:10 AM |
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CathyCRN
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hmmm...gross!!!
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| Jun 28, 2008 @ 12:22 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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hmmm...why?
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