| Apr 29, 2007 @ 4:29 PM |
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theobono
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friendship has many benefits....
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| Apr 29, 2007 @ 10:35 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Hunh...well I think I would write a totally different agreement if I had one.
Here ya go! 
THE FWB AGREEMENT
THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER THE FOLLOWING GUIDELINES:
1. Sleeping over is very good but need prior agreements unless both decide they just don't want to split for the night. Weekends can be arranged with plenty of advance notice.
2. Public meetings are great!
3. Phone calls are great!ust don't get crazy about it.
4. Tantric sex is great, making love is essential. Kissing is wonderful, but don't drool or open your mouth like a big mouth bass. Massage is wonderful. (I give great massage) You must be trainable in sex and and massage and open to it.
5. Sharing is great, emotional and mental support is great. If you require too much of it, make an appointment.
6. “Dates”, sexual encounters or other “date-like” plans can be made in advance or if possible for both to do, last minute...just so long as it is not late at night. Going out to pick up someone and not scoring is not acceptable reasons to call me.
7. Please no baby talk ...or dirty talk. Call 900- Xratedsextalk for that. If we can't get together and both are horny, phone sex IS an option but it has got to be sexy not vulgar.
8. Discussing other sexual encounters is fine so long as we are finding great things to do with each other thru them.
9. No just showing up at the other person’s house/apt/etc without agreement on a time or calling first.
10. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK - don't be offended. Fantasizing while having sex is fine as well, just do NOT ask me what all my fantasies are about. I will tell you some of them if you are interested. You can share yours if you want.
11. Leaving stuff at each others places is fine. Don't be offended if you catch me wearing it.
12. Respect is necessary. No coersion, SM, BD. No soapy sex. That shit BURNS!
13.You cannot borrow my vehicle (be it 2 or 4 wheels) for any reason. I may give you a ride if it does not create conflict in my schedule.
14. You can claim me as your girlfriend only if I can claim you as my boyfriend. That will require an upgrade tho.
15. I require an orgasm unless I say it is ok. Quickies are ok under some circumstances.
16. No frequent use of alcohol; any illegal drugs or cigarettes. If you are into that, I am not into you.
17. I am not really into oral sex. If I was, I would have a girlfriend instead. Sometimes I will go for oral but it is FOREPLAY not the main course. That is what your penis is for, otherwise I would give up men for women. 18. If you have other sexual partners, you will use a condom when with me and we will do regular check up for contageous symptoms or visible critters. Plus you will have a regular 6 month std checkup as will I. 19. No means no, maybe means maybe, yes means yes. Hm, let me think about it means possibly but I need to check my schedule ...or possibly, but you need to encourage me (arouse me).
[Edited on 4/29/2007 11:37 PM]
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| May 1, 2007 @ 12:03 AM |
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ravensday
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I think its entirely possible and even probable that she is not in love with you. I think it is very easy to maintain that distance and still have a wonderful sex life. Hell if it works for the both of you...why question it?
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| May 13, 2007 @ 5:28 PM |
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Moonwalk
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You act like FRIENDS and have the BENEFIT of physical intimacy.
It seems that the idea of "Friends With Benefits" must have been invented by a man.
because they want to enjoy sexual gratification from women without having any obligation to them.
Friend = One attached to another by affection or esteem
BenefitT = 1. an act of kindness , 2. something that promotes well-being
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| May 17, 2007 @ 9:11 PM |
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NatGoat
Posts: 4,213
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Great . . !!!
When do I move In . . ???
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| May 17, 2007 @ 9:32 PM |
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painter007
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If Im gonna be lovin on someone I want them to be my sweetie....
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| May 17, 2007 @ 9:33 PM |
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NatGoat
Posts: 4,213
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...Don't say I haven't Offered . . . Sweetie . .  
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| Sep 27, 2007 @ 5:12 AM |
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candylily
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There's a very sexy and fun guy that I really like. We talk about everything and have a really good time when we're together. We could have had a serious relationship when it first began several years ago, but he didn't have enough time for me because of his 3 teenagers and his job. I don't want a friends with benefits relationship with anyone, but evidently that would work for him. The times we're together are few and far between, but the conversation never stops entirely. There have been times I've seen him but wouldn't have sex because I don't want to be used like that and he knows it. He accepted that even though he didn't like it. The last time we were together was in July. He took me for a cycle ride and then out to eat. We hadn't had sex for 2 years and I didn't expect to that day either but we had had so much fun together that day and it had been so long since I had had sex with anyone that I didn't resist much when he started kissing me. True to form, he didn't call me back of course and it sent me into one of my depressions because I was so mad at myself. I was just starting to feel better and started going to POF meetings instead of dating anyone. I signed up to go to another one in a few weeks and had never even seen my "friend" on the site. Tonight I looked and he has signed up to go to the POF thing too now. I thought about taking my name off, but I don't want to let him influence my behavior. Maybe some women can handle "friends with benefits" but I don't think I'm one of them.
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| Sep 27, 2007 @ 5:20 AM |
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katydid438
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been there done that Candy,,,although I didn't realize it at the time.......never would willingly do that,, ever! Don't consider being intimate with a man as being "lucky" 
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 11:34 AM |
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Blue000
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MMMM my own candy man... bring it on.. 
if tall over 40 large frame....mm that would be a bonus 
 right whose on the menu ha ha ha
kels x
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 4:54 PM |
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GibsonGirl93
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If Im gonna be lovin on someone I want them to be my sweetie....
I absolutely agree Painter
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 6:55 PM |
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painter007
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 2:22 PM |
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rosie4life
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Maybe it is a woman thing but those benefits seem to never be free .... I am happiest with one good man...
Peace, Rosie
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 2:33 PM |
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GibsonGirl93
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I agree Rosie!!
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:25 PM |
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Angel178
Posts: 37,716
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 No baby....it wouldn't matter to me
How did we get back to this topic? What does it have to do with Friends with Benefits? If that is all I wanted, I have lots of friends.... 
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:49 PM |
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Pete73052
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But Baby, we'd have a whale of a time...
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:49 PM |
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Angel178
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Are we talking Sea World again?
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:50 PM |
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Pete73052
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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KAOS2007
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Enemies with drawbacks?
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| Oct 3, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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Pete73052
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Strangers with Candy
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