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what was the problem? what does it mean?


Jul 11 @ 7:36 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
misslady84


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This is a stupid question, but I'm asking anyway. I had an overnight date last night. We never actually had sex, he couldn't stay *aroused* for lack of better terminology. We spent all night kissing and cuddling...not just until we fell asleep. We cuddled all night. He kissed me on the cheek, on the forehead, etc.

Even the next morning after he got up and dressed for work he hugged and kissed me. We cuddled on the couch for a few minutes before left, and when we left he hugged and kissed me again.

So I guess the knot in my stomach is wondering if that was just part of playing the night, even into the next day, or if the feelings might be real.

Was the *arousal* problem something I was doing?
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Jul 11 @ 9:31 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
RainbowSharpie


Posts: 1,010
Maybe he was thinking of something gross to lose the boner so you wouldn't think he was a pervert.
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Jul 11 @ 9:32 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
LaughTillYaPuke


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I would be concermed. Yep. That would worry me.
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Jul 11 @ 9:37 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
j_goose


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{Psst...hey puke....I got a boner}
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Jul 11 @ 9:39 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
warrior674


Posts: 5,007
He may have just been nervous. Maybe he masturbated earlier. Who knows...It happens sometimes.
It probably wasn't you though.
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Jul 12 @ 2:12 AM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
Say_Yes


Posts: 1,788
It could be any number of things, most of which are no big deal. In other words, a one time occurance isn't anything to be concerned about. If it becomes a trend, then you need to have a little discussion as to what that problem is.
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Jul 12 @ 2:18 AM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
nah12


Posts: 3,973
if it's a new relationship give it some time ... if it's not so new then you should talk if it happens again just not while it's happening..... that would be too emotional of a time for both probably...

Good luck either way
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Jul 12 @ 9:21 AM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
custis


Posts: 1,341
Of course most of us guys have the opposite problem. What always embarrassed the hell out of me is slow dancing with a date and trying to keep my hardon from poking against her while not making it obvious. This is where a smart and understanding girl will just pull you closer and grind against it a little to let you know she likes it.
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Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
SKIDELZ


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isnt this a double thread ??
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Jul 16 @ 10:40 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
Silver1961


Posts: 4,095
NO ~ it's a three peat thread.. Can you say TROLL or Bogus file???
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Jul 16 @ 10:42 PM what was the problem? what does it mean?    
SKIDELZ


Posts: 1,381
I just saw the third and thought I had just miscounted lol

wwwtttttffff !!?? lol ...
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