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Jul 16, 2008 @ 1:39 AM is porn like real sex?    
luvnlaughter


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How much is virtual, vicarious sex (porn) like real sex? I was wondering because the guy I'm seeing though I wouldn't say addicted watches it lot and I was wondering if I should care- feel jealous like he's cheating on me namely. I don't know cause I don't watch porn for one thing. Anyone?
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 2:47 AM is porn like real sex?    
RainbowSharpie


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As long as he's not going out and f***ing a porn star I don't see why it would be cheating.

I watch porn all the time and if that's considered cheating...well...f***.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 2:52 AM is porn like real sex?    
Silver1961


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What is porn
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 2:55 AM is porn like real sex?    
RainbowSharpie


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Yeah, we're all gonna believe that you don't know what it is.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 4:03 AM is porn like real sex?    
LaughTillYaPuke


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Pah! Don't sweat it. Think of it like a cook book. Doesn't it seem all the more appealing when there are pictures?

No matter what a man tells you, the majority of them enjoy a bit of porn from time to time. No biggy. As long as he doesn't "need" it when he's with you...that's all that matters.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 9:24 AM is porn like real sex?    
SaintBacon


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Porn isn't like real sex. To me it's either an assist to masturbation, or a diversion for Mrs. Bacon and I when we are wanting something a little different. But as far as it being a substitute for actual sex...nah. Most porn that I've seen isn't very realistic either...I hardly see ANY of them wearing pig snouts!
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 9:48 AM is porn like real sex?    
custis


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Sex is sex, whether you are cuffing your carrot while looking at Ms. May, or you are actually boffing Ms. May. It is all a matter of degree. What amazes me is the tons of baggage that the holier than thous have attached to porn. During his administration Richard Nixon authorized his house science panel to do a study on porn because he wanted to establish a link between porn and violent sex crimes. When the members of this panel did an exhaustive study and reported that they found no link, Nixon chose to ignore their findings and act as if the study had never happened. If a child molester or a rapist is found to have a large quantity of porn, people point their fingers and say "See, that is what that stuff makes you do." Their mistake is in assuming that it is a cause and effect relationship. It is not. Many millions of people who would never dream of molesting a child or raping anyone enjoy porn.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 9:55 AM is porn like real sex?    
Gallows_Humor


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for the sake of discussion,,,

As long as he doesn't "need" it when he's with you...that's all that matters
if it bothered her (or him) enough to ask the SO to stop watching porn when alone.. and the SO would not or could not..would the SO's refusal ... matter in the relationship?
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:13 AM is porn like real sex?    
LaughTillYaPuke


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Sheesh Gallows. That just makes arguments where there is none. Some insicure women may need to pick fights and only want a man to stare at them unblinking, but I think most women know how to pick their battles.

If it's not affecting your relationship or sex life in any way...who the hell cares? If it is not changing your sex life and your getting enough from the man, it would ultimately be a battle for control and nothing more.

Shit. I've got better things to do than that to be honest. That would be right up there with being upset if the man wasn't thinking of YOU every time he masturbated. And YES....people DO still masturbate in commited relationships.

It's fun for cripes sake.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:17 AM is porn like real sex?    
Gallows_Humor


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. .. great answer...( as usual... ) .. but you know... now there can't be any further discussion on it...


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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:21 AM is porn like real sex?    
warrior674


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A little porn is okay. Too much can be a real problem.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:32 AM is porn like real sex?    
SaintBacon


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Okay, but WHAT is too much? Does this mean I have to shut down the webcam in my sty?
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:51 AM is porn like real sex?    
warrior674


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Too much means if it consumes your time. In a relationship...or not!


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Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:54 AM is porn like real sex?    
lj450


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is porn like real sex?

Yes, the women take my money, ridicule my penis, and then fake an orgasm.



Just like the real thing.


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Jul 16, 2008 @ 5:29 PM is porn like real sex?    
Loreli


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Porn is nowhere near like real sex. How silly!

Any ADDICTION is bad. It can destroy relationships...
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 7:51 PM is porn like real sex?    
custis


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"YES....people DO still masturbate in commited relationships."

Couples who have not done this together do not know what they are missing.
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 7:52 PM is porn like real sex?    
custis


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"Too much means if it consumes your time. In a relationship...or not! "

Yep. If you eat too many corn flakes you will die.

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Jul 16, 2008 @ 8:28 PM is porn like real sex?    
sensuouswoman


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OHhhhhh............I'm badder than porn
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Jul 16, 2008 @ 8:46 PM is porn like real sex?    
willowy1


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If a child molester or a rapist is found to have a large quantity of porn, people point their fingers and say "See, that is what that stuff makes you do." Their mistake is in assuming that it is a cause and effect relationship. It is not. Many millions of people who would never dream of molesting a child or raping anyone enjoy porn.
More than creepy! Not child porn I would hope!
And THOSE sick basdids always seem to have plenty of "it" stored on the old computer.


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Jul 16, 2008 @ 8:46 PM is porn like real sex?    
willowy1


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I must double post when I get pissed
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