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you need to indulge in some "play time". Just you, without your SO. Find out what works for you, what feels good so you can relay it to your SO.
Um, I figured that out while I was still a virgin...  It was a shocking discovery, to say the least...definitely a WOW experience.
Masturbation (yeah, I said it!!) is 'practise' in achieving orgasm, not just finding out what feels good. The more often you do it and achieve orgasm, the easier it is to do with your partner. And it's gonna be different strokes for different folks - some people think there's something seriously wrong with laughing about some of the ummmm....slips and slides and such that happen, others find it increases the intimacy and communication...you just so need to be on the same page.
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