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Many complain about lack of sex in a relationship. Why?


Aug 10, 2008 @ 6:32 AM Many complain about lack of sex in a relationship. Why?    
willsmalto


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A man who doesn't humps his wife...that's what I said...or talks about sex with his wife is definitely having some else where. come on, which man can go for like forever without sex?
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Aug 10, 2008 @ 6:59 AM Many complain about lack of sex in a relationship. Why?    
Carol386


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My lack of desire came one day in a counseling session. We were discussing things that we would like to see changed/addressed with each other. My ex got to go first and then when it was my turn (cuz there really are 2 people in a marriage), he got up and said that was the way he was and wasn't going to change for anyone I had already suspected he was having some on the side (and yes we were having sex up to then - frequently) and that statement just proved me right. He tried everything - doing laundry, washing dishes but I wouldn't budge. Sorry no trust, no sex - - besides there are some STD's that even Ajax can't get off!
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Aug 10, 2008 @ 9:12 AM Many complain about lack of sex in a relationship. Why?    
eyesofastranger


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when i was younger i thought much like the people here. and i always ended up single. i do try not to be an a-hole but you people are single for a good reason.
when my wife approaches me for sex i have 2 options. say yes or drop dead. she responds exactly the same. if she doesn't feel in the mood she will kindly ask me to change her mind. i have made this request too.
i am married. this woman is my wife. if not me then who??
my words never get posted do why do i bother
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Jun 30 @ 10:13 PM Many complain about lack of sex in a relationship. Why?    
SpiritOrnery


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Aw, sorry, Eyes. I think if people are really connected EVERYthing works. Not just good and or frequent sex. Their whole relationship works. That connection is what does it. Nothing is too big or too hard to get over or get past if both people truly care. I know this. The trick is finding your other half of that truly awesome relationship.

It can be challenging to match up to each others values and imaginations. Some people just stop dead at the door and refuse to even look inside the room to SEE if it may be a good place to visit. Sounds like your Ex, Carole.
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