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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:28 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Ok so rejection sucks, but what if you having rejected the person just sex with them? Have you ever told yourself no let do this? Was it received well. Anytime I have rejected sex they always get pisted off.
What am I doing wrong?
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:30 PM |
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robodad
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Anytime I have rejected sex they always get pisted off.
What am I doing wrong? Don't reject sex
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:34 PM |
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SyndilLucian
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If you would feel used, or feel like you used them by having sex with them, then I would say, no, don't do it. Anyone who just wants sex, and gets pissed off for not getting it has some issues already, I would just walk away. jmho
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:40 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Don't reject sex 
Im not rejecting sex per say, but more of the timing of it. Thats what I try to avoid, the using stuff. I love sex, just want it to be a reward for doing right, not to just fullfilled a silly temporary need.
Agree. gets pissed off for not getting it has some issues already the other side of the sword is I dont want to give it up just for the sakes of giving it up. I mean what a waste, met great and think its all going good. to get a message that they dumped ya before the plane even sets down, or ya get back from the store.
[Edited on 8/24/2008 7:42 PM]
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:42 PM |
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Carol386
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Just be upfront - if she gets mad about it, its her loss not yours. A person has to be true to themselves. It is hard sometimes not to get caught up in a passionate moment though 
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:45 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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That would make the most sense, but to simple, simple got the leather in my car slashed up 
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 7:56 PM |
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Carol386
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Ouch - sorry to hear that - hell hath no fury . . . . she must have just wanted you for your great body and not your mind
Only had one guy ticked cuz he wasn't gonna get any - but I told him at the start of dinner that it wasn't gonna happen and I had no idea when it might. He didn't understand that the decision was just as much mine as it was his.
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 9:56 PM |
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Bamadreamer
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Hmmm..
I am not a forward type chick.. I am 37 yrs old and only once in my entire life have I came on to a guy the first time and honestly I still don't know what came over me (but damn he was fine) but to make the first move is just not me.
It is different when I am dating someone, I have to be honest and say if I make the moves on my guy and he says no, it does hurt my feelings but I would try not to let him know because I would respect him that much.
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| Aug 24, 2008 @ 11:50 PM |
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scotlove674
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lol
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| Aug 26, 2008 @ 6:18 PM |
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Always_Striving
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What am I doing wrong?
The syntax of your sentence structure. I am having a little trouble deciphering the message.
Since this part of your sentence is comprehendable I will respond to it.
burnslikethesun said:
Anytime I have rejected sex they always get pisted off.
Maybe you should explain why you do not want to have sex with her to set her mind at ease.
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| Aug 26, 2008 @ 6:57 PM |
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Loreli
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Whatever degree your relationship has been to: online, phone, or in person is the fitting way to break up, IMO.
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| Aug 27, 2008 @ 12:05 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Let me get this straight.....
You rejected some woman, as in "beat it babe, you aren't my type", and her reply was "wanna hit this booty?"
I don't know what you've got, but you should bottle it!
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| Aug 27, 2008 @ 3:41 AM |
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custis
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"Don't reject sex"
Very sound, sage advice.
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 8:10 AM |
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drs297
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next time hit and hit it hard, just make sure you reject the act of letting her have an orgasm
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 8:17 AM |
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willowy1
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^^^then I guess YOU will be staying in after class!
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 8:20 AM |
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drs297
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 7:23 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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Anytime I have rejected sex they always get pisted off.
What am I doing wrong?
ummm Burns? You know that ole double standard thing about what one can get away with while the other can't? YOU ARE BREAKING THAT MEASURE!!!! Telling a woman no to sex is the equivalent to....OMG.....there IS no equivalent. Doing her sister before you marry her is safer than telling her "NO!" to sex. There is NO point of forgiveness. No compromise center. No even ground. Good lord man.....What is your major malfunction?????
WAIT!!!! I found the equivalent. 
The equivalent to telling a girl no is her looking at your hard penis, sighing with drooping shoulders, and frowning disapprovingly. Her laughing as she get's dressed is the seat slashing equivalent. If she uses two fingers to measure the size with a WTF?!?!? look and shaking her head no....become a hermit.
Basically Burns, you killed her self esteem. Women pride themselves on the fact that access to their ...hmmm ....  got it  ....."core of personal desires"  is a privilege and personal offering you are being "allowed" to partake in.
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 7:29 PM |
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Merchitown
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Hmm...interesting point, Issues. Although, can one still view it as a privelage when it's obviously offered much more freely than it was before? Inquiring minds wanna know!
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 7:39 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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Hmm...interesting point, Issues. Although, can one still view it as a privelage when it's obviously offered much more freely than it was before? Inquiring minds wanna know!
No. Those are the ones without self esteem. Ask any why they do that and you might get an answer like: she stopped caring and is going for hers. Which in reality means that at some point she was probably surprised gangbanged and liked it, but could never admit it to herself since society says that makes her a lecher of ill repute.
Ladies? Any input on this?
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| Oct 2, 2008 @ 7:47 PM |
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drs297
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surprised gangbanged.... have never tried that route,, note to self.
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