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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 2:37 PM |
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secretdry
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I have been seeing someone on occasion but he has never tryed to have sex with me. This has been going on for over a year. What could the reason be behind this?
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 2:52 PM |
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waiting41
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 Secret this is REALLY hard to help you without alot more details......like, how far have you gone? Is it a "love" relationship? Monogamous? I'm guessing it is casual dating and you want to have sex with him? We could do alot of guessing here, but, without more info it's hard to say and the best person you could talk to about this relationship is him  
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 3:02 PM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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He could be gay.
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 3:21 PM |
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johnw_6
Posts: 194
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someone on occasion
???????
that sounds like friendship rather than more -we need details!
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 3:40 PM |
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Angel54214
Posts: 14,063
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Don't hold back your 'secrets' now...We 'waiting' and 'John' writes a letter in meantime... 
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 3:46 PM |
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Bambi123
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This is very puzzling indeed!
Most men are eager to jump into the sack at the nearest opportunity. 
We do need more details I'm afraid! If this guy is just a friend then it's possible he does not view the relationship in this way.
If he is someone your dating, how old is he? Could this be his first time? If it is, he might be waiting for you to initiate the first move.
God knows, but a guy who hasn't initiated sex for a year???? That is a first! 
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 3:57 PM |
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I_LuvU4U2
Posts: 9
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Secret:
He may have a low VERY low testerone level or ED or maybe he is having sex with someone else. Like all have said...mo details and we'll look into our crystal ball for the real damned truth.
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 4:09 PM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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He had a bad accident with a propane torch.
His mother loved him a little too much.
You are hideous.
He's not gay - but you are a man.
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 4:38 PM |
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Angel54214
Posts: 14,063
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Need more info 'Secret', what kind of relationship do you both have? friends/sister type? What do you do together for fun and interests. Lots of reasons, but we need to know so we can help
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 5:05 PM |
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secretdry
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We have done everything other then sex I have tried to initiate things but he never continues. And I am pretty sure its not how I look by the some of the things he says and other girls that I have seen that he likes I know I look better then them... and that is normally something hard to say for me.
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 5:05 PM |
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johnw_6
Posts: 194
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perhaps he simply doesn't think your dating - have you made a move?
Told him how you feel? (that would be to much now wouldn't it)
Tell him to put his mind reading cap on!!!!!
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 8:08 PM |
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chinabull2000
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Perhaps he is worried that if he makes the first move then you will think he is only after sex, plus he may not be sure that YOU want sex because you have been "seeing" each other for such a long time already without sex.
Have you asked him?
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 9:07 PM |
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Angel54214
Posts: 14,063
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Do you use birth control? Maybe he's afraid you will get pregnant.
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 10:31 PM |
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secretdry
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Ok...
Im very sure that he is not gay for one
I have made a move towards it
We have a relationship of friends but we on ocassion do more then just friends
And I think that he is too young to have any sexual disorders also because it works during other things
If he is just being a 'nice guy' I think that its been going on long enough. But if he is scared for some reason I have been friends with him long enough and through enough stuff that I would think he would know I would understand almost anything
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| Jan 2, 2006 @ 10:43 PM |
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sciurusniger
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Could be that he likes you very much and cares for you a great deal - but only as a friend. And if he's a good guy he won't want to "take advantage" of you and chance ruining your friendship.
Best to just have a heart to heart with him and tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same. But remember, he may well say no and want to remain just friends.
And it will have nothing to do with your attractiveness, etc. You are just not "right" in that way for HIM.
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| Jan 3, 2006 @ 2:06 AM |
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Kiss_me_Kiss
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Come out wearing a "strp-on" and see how excited he gets. 
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| Jan 3, 2006 @ 9:37 AM |
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lj450
Posts: 8,409
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Maybe hes just not ready to share his collection of venereal diseases with you......just yet. Could be a blessing in disguise!!
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| Jan 3, 2006 @ 12:18 PM |
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Mischief484
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Ask him to come over. Then answer the door nekkid. If that doesn't do it, then he's gay.
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| Jan 3, 2006 @ 12:27 PM |
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FeliciVagano
Posts: 2,152
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A guy's perspective...
there are two types of sexual encounters..one is a purely sexual one..the other is a committed relationship one.
It just might be that he is not "doing you" because he doesn't want to commit..but since you have a relationship based on friendship, he cannot just "do you" for sex.
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| Jan 3, 2006 @ 3:10 PM |
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burgher54
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Do bathe regularly??
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