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Why do women forgive their men after an affair?


Oct 29, 2008 @ 8:43 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Bionic_Angel


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... and do as many men find themselves able to forgive?

Why would seemingly strong, successful women like Hilary Clinton and Cheryl Cole forgive their men when they've been unfaithful, are they right to do so, and can they ever really forget?

Could you have sex with someone else when you're still in love with your partner?
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 9:51 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Sweetheart83446


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"Sometimes it's better to loose your pride and dignity for a day, than to loose the love of your life forever,,"

People make mistakes. Some are easier to forgive than others.

Could you have sex with someone else when you're still in love with your partner?

NO...
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 9:53 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
drs297


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hilary don't count,, she has/had other agendas.. in the political life a lot of things are different
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 9:55 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Merchitown


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No, I don't think you could be in love...hence the affair. Something's wrong and it should be fixed. However, I think it's easier to forgive if the partner comes clean. If it's discovered...then anger and hurt get mixed up in it, rationality goes out the window, and the rifle gets pulled down off the wall.
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:07 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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you can't reach the rifle on the wall ...even with a step ladder.


i think women are able to forgive because of the hooker/home theory. a man will be a man so if he goes out and f***s something he better not bring it home. if he tries to replace you with the hooker, crucify him.

as long as they don't mess with your home, all can be worked on...or something like that....

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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:08 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Sweetheart83446


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I think it's easier to forgive if the partner comes clean
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I agree
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:09 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Merchitown


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LOL well I was speaking theoretically. (damn, I have NO idea if that is spelled right) Like I said...I've never been cheated on. Although, I also don't usually stick around long enough to give an opportunity. Except the marriage...

And I can SO reach the rifle..Here! let me show you!
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:20 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
CathyCRN


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hooker/home theory
Interesting theory...many women feel "stuck" in their relationships as they don't feel they can support themselves and children without their husbands. Very sad. Or, they feel that the children are better off with dad in the home, or prefer to keep their current lifestyle, thus they forgive. Personally, if a man cheats once, he'll cheat again...kick his ass packin and get on with life...who needs the drama, trauma, and stress!!! Dealt with it before, never again...

[Edited on 10/29/2008 10:21 PM]
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:20 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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I agree


Sweetheart83446, i have something to tell you. It's about our son. though you carried him, he is not yours. you're not the mother
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:22 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
drs297


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I'm just trying to figure out how one goes about telling the other?

Uh, hon.. I fuked somebody else but it meant nothing, it was the night you said you had a headache, so it doesn't really count
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:22 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Merchitown


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Tell them in a public place. That ladylike gene kicks in...unless...she's not a lady. Then....sucks to be you!!
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:24 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
drs297


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public my ass.

would have one of those planes write it across the sky.. shit figure if I used my cock to screw somebody else should have the balls to let everybody see how much of an ass I was
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:26 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Carol386


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kick his or her ass to the curb - chances are pretty great they will do it again & again. Every time you take them back, you are just making it easier and easier for them
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:26 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Merchitown


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red white and blue lettering, underline in green ya evil prick!
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:31 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Sweetheart83446


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I just think that none of us are perfect and shit happens. If we don't have forgiveness, compassion and understanding in our hearts, what do we have?
It's easy to throw stones, but, no one REALLY knows what they would do untill they are actually IN that situation. Ya know?

I'm not saying you have to take that person back, but, would you rather not be told and get some STD or at least know the person you were with cared about you enough to even frikin tell you.

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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:34 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
drs297


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wow.. you actually live up to your name..

I was thinking I'd cut off my own nuts, figure when I feel asleep they would be sliced and would rather do it myself.
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:34 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
Merchitown


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Exactly sweetheart.
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:34 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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i say text it to her.
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:35 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
drs297


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that is sooooooooooooooooooo last year issues

now you would youtube it
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Oct 29, 2008 @ 10:38 PM Why do women forgive their men after an affair?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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my apologies. last time that happened though the ...well ya'll saw the movie jarhead. that scene was actually from a real story.
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