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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 1:17 AM |
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STLRAMS
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Ok today my gf of 2 and half years well now ex i guess contacted me and said i hope u find what makes you happy and just so you know it really is over so please move on.Ok we were ok last thursday we hung out and made out and so on.Then i said friday i think i need a bit of space im going through a tough time now no biggie in the past she was more then willing to give me it.Saturday comes bam stay the hell away from me and my kids im done with your drama.I explained to her to relax and i wanna be with her so sunday comes we are still iffy but she said come over monday plz.At this point i figure all is well nope monday comes stay the hell home and out of my kids and my life once again.At this point i went over there with some roses hoping to get to talk to me no luck i had to leave the roses on the floor.She called when i left and said im just done im done no explanation.She said u wanted this now your gonna get it.Since then i have explained i want to be with her i made a mistake but no shes taking it and already seems to be moving ahead making her myspace who wants to mingle im single and so on.Anyway to end this im just lost i cant believe 2 years can be over just like that will giving her the rest of the week work cause its killing me to cave in and text her or call.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 3:00 AM |
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suks2beu
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you ignored her an now you are payn the price.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 6:33 AM |
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drs297
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hmmm.. guess that was the girl friend..
oh well... there is your answer
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 4:04 PM |
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custis
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Well now that it is over, perhaps you should tell us the rest of the story. I have a strong feeling that you left a lot out.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 5:13 PM |
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Loreli
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That's what I thought Custis....
Sounds done....honor her wishes. 
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 5:22 PM |
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STLRAMS
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Well for once i caved in today and met her at her house and told her she needs to hear me out.I pour out my feelings she pretty much just listened didnt say much.I told her i am sorry i gave her griff and need one last chance she said no its over im done she said in the end she just couldnt hold on anymore.She gave me a kiss and i hugged her then i went home.I am still confused we had sex and made out then the next day or 2 all broke down with her.My friend said to play the i got a gf card and sooner or later shell come back or just go cold turkey and stop talking she will come back.I don't know if thats true i just never thought after 2 years it be that easy to let go. 
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 5:26 PM |
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drs297
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Oh hell.. go find a friend of hers and bang her, so much easier than playing the whole I have a girlfriend card
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 5:40 PM |
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Skydognc
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^^^^^
now thats serious advice ! 
and he's right......... she let you go....doesnt really matter why !
let it go !
The best healing is to evaluate, learn. move on, and never look back!
btw........is her friend cute?
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 5:48 PM |
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Loreli
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I pour out my feelings she pretty much just listened didnt say much.I told her i am sorry i gave her griff and need one last chance she said no its over
There's your answer.
Doesn't mean it's easy....it just is.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 6:39 PM |
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STLRAMS
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Hey loreli u think i should just flat out ignore her or like i said keep updating her via myspace status which i know for a fact she reads and say i'm seeing someone else .Then again if its meant to be will it matter if im taken or now i think so .Thanks for your advice
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 6:48 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Is anyone else starting to wonder if she started telling him it was over about two years ago?????????? 
STL....................do not disillusion yourself ..............IT IS OVER!!!!! Give the girl a break. Trust me, the more you try, the more she will come to despise you. Cut your loss and start anew.....hopefully after doing some reflecting.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 7:08 PM |
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STLRAMS
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It wasnt over 2 years ago its been good up untill last friday heck i was at her house thursday and her 2 kids were saying we love you daddy and stuff.We even made the gift list for xmas thats why i was thrown off come friday with her sudden change of heart.As you can see this also involves 2 kids who have grown very attached to me.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 7:43 PM |
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drs297
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so it appears you have a problem listening and understanding..
people here have told you things and blah blah blah from you.. this or that, why or what should.. Either take some of the advice or not..
If your any kind of man and know kids are involved leave it alone and move on, plain and simple. There is no fuking well what if I do this or act this way, it is called life and shit happens..
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 7:57 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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Don't play games with her....if there's any chance of going back you'll ruin it if you go off letting her believe you jumped right on someone else.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:09 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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My friend said to play the i got a gf card and sooner or later shell come back or just go cold turkey and stop talking she will ...might ..come back
.I don't know if thats true i just never thought after 2 years it be that easy to let go
it ain't ever easy.. but you are 25 years old....there will be others...
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:13 PM |
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willowy1
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Then i said friday i think i need a bit of space im going through a tough time now no biggie in the past she was more then willing to give me it.Saturday comes bam stay the hell away from me and my kids im done with your drama.I She got her fill of the red light green light game.
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:19 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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A state of simultaneous occurrences of significant instants among two or more signals..... Synchronizing signals definition fro........
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:20 PM |
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willowy1
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I needa my space
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:38 PM |
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STLRAMS
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Thanks for the advice scorpiogirl36 her coustin texted me saying i should keep trying if i really love her and call her so we can have a one on one talk not around the kids thats good advice i guess but i was told by you ppl going NC is a better route
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| Nov 20, 2008 @ 8:40 PM |
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Angel178
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Good luck
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