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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:36 PM |
Sexual compatibility. How important is it to you?
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Kenn159
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I’m not going to use names because I want to respect personal privacy, but I have a female friend that is a Christian and is about to get married, but will not have sex before marriage.
Then I have another female friend that told her she should” take him for a spin” first before marriage just to make sure the two are compatible.
How important is it to you that your potential future or current mate have the same degree of sex drive as you do?
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:39 PM |
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Fender
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I think it's extremely important. I'm a physical person. I like to touch and be touched...So I want someone that is the same, and I can honestly say...Because I've had the experience, it's hard being in a relationship with someone who is satisfied by the once a month lay.
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:40 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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My personal opinion is it means everything...without mutual compatibility you can't complete that circle of love.
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:41 PM |
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Winnie4010
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I think I'd have to try it out first....I mean...who wants to be stuck with something that ain't worth a dayum???
Well since she's waiting, I don't guess she'd know or not, huh?  
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:50 PM |
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Kenn159
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I agree with you Fender.
I am the same, very touchy feely, I even like to cuddle. 
Physical contact is so important, so I would have problem being with someone that doesn't need that intimate contact.
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:51 PM |
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Kenn159
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I think I'd have to try it out first....I mean...who wants to be stuck with something that ain't worth a dayum???
Well since she's waiting, I don't guess she'd know or not, huh?
Yeah I guess its "suprise"good or bad on the wedding day.
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:05 PM |
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drs297
Posts: 4,862
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no fuky no saying yuppy
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:09 PM |
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Kenn159
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:11 PM |
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Winnie4010
Posts: 2,641
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Beginning to wonder why I've never gotten married 
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:11 PM |
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Aeromuse
Posts: 3,979
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direct, and to the point! 
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:13 PM |
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Laidback742
Posts: 4,679
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Isn't this why mistresses and pool boys were created .... ?
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:17 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
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Do I need a pool to get a pool boy
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 10:22 PM |
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drs297
Posts: 4,862
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just get one of those platic kiddie pools
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 11:11 PM |
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scorpiogirl36
Posts: 4,002
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DRS! you're so original....thanks! 
SANTA.... HEY SANTA..can you drop off one kiddie pool at my house?
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| Dec 13, 2008 @ 11:46 PM |
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pamdemonium
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It's as important to have someone you like to talk to as the years progress.
How many times are people drawn to each other physically, but out of bed
they have nothing? It's important, yes, but it's not everything.
If a person insists on standing on ceremony, religion wise, well, they're taking
a gamble that they're compatible that way. However, they had to have gotten
pretty darn close to the act, to consider marriage, wouldn't you think?
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| Dec 14, 2008 @ 3:18 AM |
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custis
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It is VERY important. I spent six yrs in a marriage where I was lucky if I got it once in a week or two. And when I did get it, she laid there like an angry log, urging me to hurry up and get it over with. I will NEVER do that again.
I will probably get hate mail for this, but my suspicion is that most people who wait for marriage probably do not have much of a sex drive anyway.
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| Dec 14, 2008 @ 12:50 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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To me???? On a scale of 1-10, probably about 20. Of course when I was younger it would have been even higher...but then again I'm not religious so it's hard for me to say how I'd feel about the subject if I really considered it wrong to have non-marital sex.
As far as choosing a life mate - I think my SO and I have pretty much decided this is till death do us part for us, but that's not based entirely on having matching sex drives (which we do, hallelujah!!). We don't agree on many of the details - he's a Christian and a Republican, I'm a Deist and a Libertarian, but we both are pretty much sticklers about ethics and our attitudes on helping others, caring about the planet and doing what we can to help relieve the suffering of innocents, as well as feeling life without pets is not something we'd ever want, and loving the silence of nature pretty much in the raw (okay, a privy is a very good thing). Oh, and football, hockey and baseball are great too.
So yeah, apart from religion and politics - we agree on all the important stuff, including sex...
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| Dec 14, 2008 @ 2:50 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 17,854
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Its very important to me......Its the icing on the cake.....
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| Dec 14, 2008 @ 2:51 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
Posts: 8,070
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i got your icing.... 
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| Dec 14, 2008 @ 2:53 PM |
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painter007
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....cmere... 
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