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Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?


Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:15 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
hank_boston


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Ok, so I'm recently single and have been reading some online guides to get back into the dating scene. Not so much a serious relationship, but definitely casual flirting and dating. In this online guide called "Succeed With Women" the author says the following:

Women want to be seduced and romanced. Do you really think they are looking
for “nice” guys?


I have always been the nice guy who uses his sense of humor to attract women. I've never been an aggressive guy that seduces women, but do women find this quality attractive? Are you more receptive to this behavior? I would appreciate your comments. Thanks!

Aside from this comment, the guide is pretty great and I would recommend it to other single guys. You can get it here...
Guide To Attracting Women
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:17 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Silver1961


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Does it come in pocket size
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:23 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
willowy1


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the nice guy probably finishes first because he doesn't get as much action.
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:26 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Silver1961


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Yeah ~ he doesn't have to stop at the clinic for a shot
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:32 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
hank_boston


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Hmm...I guess maybe it all depends on what you're looking for.
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:32 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
willowy1


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^^nice guy
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:38 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
scorpiogirl36


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The seducer every time...they're pro's at conning women. Might take months to see through them...by that time the nice guy you should have picked, is long gone.
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:40 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
thor22


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why am I always in last place
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:48 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
hank_boston


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Thank you for the tips; helpful and very much appreciated.
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:50 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
painter007


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The nice guy...........
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 9:55 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
willowy1


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So many men use their nice guyness as a cover for the fact that they’re in fact insecure. There is a middle a ground, FIND IT... women are truly looking for.the *extremely confident man!!! *see drs or silver
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:04 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Silver1961


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Yeah ~ you should see my fancy toys, and my big expensive house
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:06 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
drs297


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oh dear lord.. another spin on the nice guy thread..

thanks willow.

It doesn't have shit to do with anything you mentioned... I like to call it being yourself
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:08 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Silver1961


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I like to call it being a good BSer
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:08 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
willowy1


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you're hot!
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:09 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
hank_boston


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I enjoy meeting new people and never have an issue talking with women. I do however lack the assertiveness that would probably result in more dates or intimate encounters. This was the purpose of my question. Does it pay off to be aggressive (in a nice way) when you first meet women?
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:11 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Fender


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Research.
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:11 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
Silver1961


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Yeah ~ I pretty much have luck when I tell them to drop em after a couple of drinks
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:11 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
willowy1


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drs nailed it..be yourself!
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Dec 15, 2008 @ 10:11 PM Who finishes first - the nice guy or the seducer?    
scorpiogirl36


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Does it pay off to be aggressive (in a nice way) when you first meet women?
What degree of assertiveness are you talking about? Being witty and humorous is a sure attraction.
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