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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 10:48 AM |
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yesnomaybeso8
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Okay, weird Story but I need advice:
I met this guy at the bars and i could tell we automatically liked each other... the first few times we just texted a little but thats it... after i ran into him AGAIN for like the 5th time when I was out, we actually talked and danced for a while.. We ended up kissing/making out and had a lot of fun just hanging out .. i was leaving for chicago (to go home for winter break from college) the next day and we didn't want to say goodbye just yet.. so we went to his apartment (before i left with him, i told him not to have sexual expectations).. when we got back, we made out intensely but he was moving kinda fast.. to the point where he was just ready to have sex right away.. I personally don't sleep with people I don't know too well or don't really like/love yet.. so I was like no, i dont want to and was very blunt abt it.. i called my roommate to pick me up, and he was drunk so being kind of a jerk, he was like "u realize we'll probably never speak again?".. i laughed and was like yea sure whatevs and left.
He ended up messaging me that same night to see if i got home okay, and then again the next morning to apologize... and also wonder why i didn't have sex with him like every other girl (he gets girls EASILY).. i explained and he understood. So we texted all day and kind of got to know each other better.. after that we didnt really text but I added him on Facebook. I havent talked to him for a couple days now.. so i'm wondering did the 'no sex' thing work in my favor? I know he still wants to have sex with me and he said it would def not be just like a one time thing...but he gets that i'd rather get to know him first..
Orr do you think he probably moved on to his next conquest? He said he was just really drunk that night, but I'm not sure if he really likes me or not? What do you guys think? Should I give him a chance and make the next move or leave it?
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 10:59 AM |
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Winnie4010
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I would just leave it....he knows he can't get no sex so I'm sure he's moved on to "try" it with someone else. 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:10 AM |
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willowy1
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I am sure he is just walking around with cell in hand, hoping, praying that you will call.
so we went to his apartment (before i left with him, i told him not to have sexual expectations).. when we got back, we made out intensely but he was moving kinda fast.. to the point where he was just ready to have sex right away.. I personally don't sleep with people I don't know too well or don't really like/love yet.. so I was like no, i dont want to and was very blunt abt it. BTW you are very lucky  that when you said no,he honored it. You are a tease.
Merry Christmas.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:17 AM |
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rough
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He's a complete idiot! Did he think it would be so very impressive to let you know how easily other girls fall into bed with him? Lol Moron, let him go, and good riddance.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:26 AM |
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Winnie4010
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Yeah, what rough said 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:35 AM |
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parrothead1234
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If he's the kind that's use to being "successful" with the ladies (for lack of a better term,) you've presented him with a challenge.
Makes me wonder what happens if/when his challenge is met/achieved? 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:38 AM |
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willowy1
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oh pick me... I know the answer!! 
she comes back here crying that she has been used.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:39 AM |
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parrothead1234
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^^^^^ding ding ding ding ding - we have a winner - tell her what she's won Don Pardo...............
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:41 AM |
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Winnie4010
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Makes me wonder what happens if/when his challenge is met/achieved?
He would just move on to the next person because he'd have accomplished what he wanted to do. He didn't accomplish it this time so he moved on anyway....What a pig!!  
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 11:46 AM |
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willowy1
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not a pig...he is a young man. And a rather honest young man. 
I mean I have to guess if the old geezers my age are playas..they don't just give it up like that. 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 2:05 PM |
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Fender
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Young guy's like him go for the challenge...Then when they do you...All done. You'll never hear from him again. I wouldn't even bother wasting my time if I was you!
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 3:17 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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perhaps you are right, he just moved on to the next and all you were was a space and time filler.
either way I agree move on.
oh pick me... I know the answer!! shes a good burger to pick too.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 6:10 PM |
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willowy1
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burger??? BURGER!!? Are you calling me fast food?
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 6:32 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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STEAK^^^^^^ 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 6:46 PM |
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willowy1
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aww eat m...I mean Merry Christmas!!! 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 6:48 PM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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let me heat you up first, then dine on your tender delicacies...umm...err....ahhh...i meant...MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY HOLIDAYS, also. 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 9:03 PM |
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custis
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All of us guys want sex, even the ones who do not admit it, but acting like a jerk because she does not give it is not permissable. That is being childish. If he is childish about that, he is probably childish about other things as well.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 10:04 PM |
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Loreli
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I agree with Willowy-tease.
Perhaps you start over and "date right" with him, or don't date him at all.
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 10:47 PM |
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Fender
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I've re-thought my original opinion. Just do him. He could be a good lay. You never know. 
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| Dec 22, 2008 @ 10:50 PM |
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thor22
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yay, fender!  
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