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Dec 27, 2008 @ 3:46 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
Thor1960303


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Everywhere Sex: This type of sex is associated with couples who have only been together a short time, say under a year. They have sex in every room of the house, usually several times a day.

Usual Spots Sex: A couple that's been together awhile, say, 5 to 10 years. They have their dates, times and places down to a science. Usually once or twice a week


Bedroom Sex: Couples that have been married 10 or more years. They're doing good if they have sex once a month, and it's always in the bedroom.

Hallway Sex: Couples that have been married 20, 30 or more years. They meet in the hallway and say, "f*** You!" to each other.
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Dec 27, 2008 @ 4:14 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
scorpiogirl36


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WOW! Where do I sign up for lessons?
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Dec 27, 2008 @ 4:32 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
LipGlossQueen9


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my parents have been married for 30 years. they say f*** you to each other in the hallway and then my sister hears them saying other things multiple times a week. in the bedroom, yeah. but one time i caught them in my sister's room when she was sleeping in their room. you can have a healthy sex life and be married a long time. i'm sorry, but you seem to have a rather cynical view of monogamy and marriage.
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Dec 27, 2008 @ 11:27 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
custis


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I happen to think that a bed is a pretty damned good place for sex.
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Dec 27, 2008 @ 11:30 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
sensuouswoman


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Well...........that's a start!
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Jan 1 @ 11:18 AM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
Thor1960303


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i'm sorry, but you seem to have a rather cynical view of monogamy and marriage.

No, I'm just cynical about life in general and very proud of it. Actually, I do quite well in monagamous relationships, been married twice and had several live in g/f's and have never cheated.

I've also been single and done the FWB thing with no bad repurcussions, done the casual sex thing and walked away from it, now enjoying being married.
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Jan 1 @ 12:08 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
LipGlossQueen9


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Touche, then =)

I can't do friends with benefits/casual sex. In the past when I had done it, the arrangement that the guy and I had worked very well. Him and I had no feelings for one another and we were able to just hook up and have no problems. It was easy for me to pick someone up and just fool around with them...in the moment...

But after I did anything like that I felt empty and disgusting.
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Jan 1 @ 12:31 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
uab_5


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I'll call it praying.

Oh God...groan...oh God...I feel so good...oh God!
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Jan 1 @ 2:12 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
Thor1960303


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But after I did anything like that I felt empty and disgusting.

Interesting. Most folks associate this with women in general, but many men feel that way too. There are multiple factors at work, some biochemical, others enviromental. Were you raised in a strict home with strong sexual mores?
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Jan 1 @ 2:48 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
LipGlossQueen9


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No, my parents barely ever talked to me about sex, actually. They gave me the talk but it was basic and there were no "rules" surrounding sex. My mother even told me she'd give me condoms if I needed them.

Hell, she let my ex-boyfriend live with us when I was 19 years old.

So it was just a feeling I developed on my own.
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Jan 1 @ 2:54 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
Thor1960303


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That's even more interesting because families in areas where sexual morality is crammed down their throats have the highest rates of teen pregancies, STD's and a whole laundry list of other things related to sex that go against what they preach. It's good that you were allowed to responsibly experiment on your own and found your own path without such influences.
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Jan 1 @ 2:58 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
LipGlossQueen9


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I've noticed that, just with some of my friends and stuff. One of my friends wasn't allowed to watch the "Your Body And You" video about periods in fifth grade, or watch the TGIF shows we all watched on Friday nights because her mother thought all of these things were "sexually suggestive". The girl is sleeping around now =/
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Jan 1 @ 2:59 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
MrPaul


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Thor dont know where you get your imfo but thats BS
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Jan 1 @ 4:19 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
custis


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"families in areas where sexual morality is crammed down their throats have the highest rates of teen pregancies,"

I have seen studies that agree with this. An oppressive and overly moralistic family life breeds rebellion. A couple of the naughtiest girls I ever bedded in my life were the daughters of preachers. It reminds me of when President Nixon authorized a study to see if there was a connection between sex crimes such as rape and pedophilia with pornography. When his researchers came back to him and said there was no correlation whatsoever, he refused to accept their verdict and swept it under the rug. The point is, that sometimes we do not like the truth because it does not always tell us what we want to hear.
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Jan 1 @ 4:28 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
Thor1960303


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Thor dont know where you get your imfo but thats BS

I'm going by my own personal experience I saw growing up around that environment. I did see some stats somewhere, but I don't remember where now. Basically it has to do with a lack of education and like Custis said, rebellion from having the stuff force fed.

In all fairness, though, I do know some families, highly religious, who raised their kids with abstinence based education, yet these people weren't mainstream conservatives. The kids were home schooled ( done properly and competently) and were raised with strict discipline tempered with love. Unfortunately dysfunction runs in all families and in the former types I mentioned, there were other issues than just sex education, or lack thereof. My problem with the abstinance based education programs is their "one size fits all approach". What works for one family won't work for everyone.

A couple of the naughtiest girls I ever bedded in my life were the daughters of preachers.

Absolutely! Been there done that. My parents were very popular gospel musicians who performed on TV for over a decade. They made live appearances in churches all over the southeast and I can definitely attest that you are indeed correct. I would see girls go up to the altar at invitiation and spend a long time on their knees in prayer when less than 24 hours earlier, they were on their knees with me doing something else.
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Jan 1 @ 5:04 PM Types of Sex Based on Relationship Status    
uab_5


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It's always the PK, ain't it?
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