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Jan 9, 2006 @ 10:59 PM After It's Over    
Angel54214


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Was wondering when the love making is over, do you enjoy cuddling and holding or do you want to just roll over and fall asleep? I prefer the cuddling and holding after. To me its the spiritual moments of being close that can be so rewarding and loving.
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:02 PM After It's Over    
definitelydi


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Well...I like to roll outta bed and get cleaned up! Then, I like to cuddle and be held 'til I fall asleep!
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:10 PM After It's Over    
exiled131


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i never understood how someone would want to sleep after sex. did it bore them?
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:13 PM After It's Over    
Angel54214


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exile..I dunno really, but one time it happened to me cause he said that sex drains him of all energy and he just has to be left alone. I thought that was very strange.
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:20 PM After It's Over    
exiled131


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even afterwards, i am always too wound up to just fall over and sleep. sometimes, i am ready to go again within a few minutes. must be the stamina and vigor.
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:22 PM After It's Over    
Always_Striving


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Yes, really enjoy that as well nuzzeling her hair as we sleep together but unfortunately I generate a lot of heat from my body and women can't stay cuddled up with me too long because of the heat.
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Jan 9, 2006 @ 11:45 PM After It's Over    
wvbluebaby


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i like the cuddling..talking..smiling...that is what makes it lovemaking, not just sex
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 12:53 AM After It's Over    
danae74


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I like the cuddling too, but- now this is weird- I almost always have the urge to jump up and do something immediately! After the ritual cleanup, I'll often have an irrational urge to wash dishes or make a sandwich or take a walk. I come back soon, lol, for the cuddlin', but not until I've buzzed around for ten minutes or so.

It doesn't matter if it was a twenty-minute episode or a four-hour one, I still do the same thing. I've wondered why all my life...
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 1:06 AM After It's Over    
Pete73052


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Anything but talking.
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 1:27 AM After It's Over    
wvbluebaby


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no talking?
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 1:32 AM After It's Over    
peaches_n_cream2002


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It depends on how it was. If it was a riled up crazy time, I don't want him to touch me for awhile. I need to catch my breath and cool off, nothing worse than a sweaty body touching me.

But eventually I do like cuddling, and once in awhile talking, but not usually. I usually just like cuddling, feeling my hair stroked (LOOOOOOOOOOOVE that) and holding hands or something.

If I fall asleep it's not because I was bored, but because it just really relaxed me... and that's a good thing.
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 1:50 AM After It's Over    
Heaveninawildflower


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Kind of like shampooing: wash, rinse, repeat. Cuddle, sleep, repeat. After some really intense sessions, once I get up, I'm the Energizer bunny. OK, maybe it's just a continuation, but the better it was, the more energy I have. Yeah, I look around the house and think, it's time. :)
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 5:23 AM After It's Over    
MoonBeamTag45


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Definately cuddling afterwards....Oh, and if you stroke my hair all the better. And, maybe this might seem gross...but I'm not rolling out of bed for anything, except a fire for awhile. With any luck, I would need to wait for my legs to support me again !!!
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 11:35 AM After It's Over    
beachnutRU


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Heaven I don't understand the energy boost part.....I don't nod off but I don't go for a quick run afterwards.........haha
I am more into the being still part too let that feeling kinda seep in. I am ok with talking as long as it is mood sensitive.......no bills no kid talk no mood destroying talk. When done right the aftewards cuddling leads to another session. YESSS!!!!!!!
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 11:38 AM After It's Over    
Heaveninawildflower


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Heaven I don't understand the energy boost part


OK, let me clarify...I meant after sleeping for awhile (after the 'final encounter'), the energy boost sets in...I think it has to do with an endorphin high, if you want to get technical about it. I don't care what causes it, it's just a fantastic feeling, following a bunch of other fantastic feelings!
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 12:06 PM After It's Over    
beachnutRU


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I can't usually move very fast I trip over my GRIN that I wear.
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 1:55 PM After It's Over    
swingpup


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After hours of providing pure pleasure, the cuddling up the gentle stroking of her hair, face, back, etc., while talking is most certainly the icing on the cake.
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 2:10 PM After It's Over    
Graystar


Posts: 282
I just send her home. What...did I do something wrong?


Okay I just read this and it sounds worse than it is...I mean, you know...I drive them.

[Edited on 1/10/2006 2:14 PM]
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 3:20 PM After It's Over    
Mischief484


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I like to get a sammich or some chips n' dip. All that ugly-bumpin' makes a fella get a little hungry.
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Jan 10, 2006 @ 4:16 PM After It's Over    
kaden69


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even afterwards, i am always too wound up to just fall over and sleep. sometimes, i am ready to go again within a few minutes. must be the stamina and vigor


DAMN!
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