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JenRNinOhio
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OMG, how sad is it that I forgot about the blowing in the ear?
Oh woe is me.
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| Apr 4 @ 6:57 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Men with overbearing personalities is very unsexy!!
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| Apr 4 @ 7:01 PM |
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Angel178
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Now...is it nice to talk about 80% of the men on MD like that? No...it is not 
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| Apr 4 @ 7:24 PM |
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uab_5
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Yeah...I hate overbearing.
It needs to be compacted just right, or else your foundation will collaspe.
Now, virgin soil is a DIFFFERENT story...
....wait a minute!
This is MD! Not work. 
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| Apr 4 @ 9:49 PM |
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pomegranate
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I kinda like overbearing. But a little overbearing can go a very long way. It's better than underbearing, though, IMO. Nothing worse than a mealy mouthed man, IMO.
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| Apr 4 @ 9:51 PM |
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uab_5
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mealy mouth 
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| Apr 4 @ 10:02 PM |
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blueyes101
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men... listen to what we are saying!
But, what if they are afraid to tell you what they like?
I have been with women who just expect you to figure it out...... 
Not that it's rocket science, but there is nothing worse then to have her say......... wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy down the road, wish you didn't do that, you remind me of _____________.  Or, I really don't like that. WTF ??????? I was doing it to please you, and I'm not so insecure I can't take a tad of direction, it's all how you approach it.
I hate to have my belly button played with, even my nipples get bored once they are hard, after that, it is just annoying. 
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| Apr 4 @ 10:16 PM |
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Angel178
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Maybe you should just ask them or be mor in tune with the person you are with...
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| Apr 4 @ 10:19 PM |
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uab_5
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communication is key to every marriage unless you're a mafioso of a sultan of Persia. 
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| Apr 4 @ 10:33 PM |
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blueyes101
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I do ask, and they actually pretend to like it, or they do like it, but it reminded them of and ex......
Then I keep doing it, only to find, they were unable to convey their likes and dislikes....... I have even had them say....." I don't know, it all feels good."
Like that fricken helps.........
Take a woman touching yourself.......... If she doesn't know what she likes, how is she supposed to tell you what she likes ? Then you ask, and they get all shy, and the it can ruin the mood.
I know I'll figure it out eventually, but it shouldn't be pin the tail on the donkey while wearing a blind fold.....
It should be more like a treasure hunt.  
If you REALLY like something, why would you be afraid to tell your partner ? I just don't get it ?
If you have an itch you can't reach, tell them where to scratch... Right ??
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| Apr 4 @ 10:41 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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 Hey Blu,,, Good to see you back in the forums
I soooo agree ... WHY are some people afraid to tell the partner what they like????
Makes no sense to me ...
..As I said on the previous page here...
The MOST UNsexy is the man who either doesn't listen or doesn't believe when I verbalize what I like or don't like .... he feels he knows better and will continue to do something because HE KNOWS it will please me ... And, sadly that just turns it all off.
pfffft
I'm not your last girlfriend. Get to know ME.
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| Apr 4 @ 10:47 PM |
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BandTMom
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In the right hands, anything can be sexy. 
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| Apr 4 @ 10:48 PM |
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blueyes101
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Ok, time for you to make a list of what you  like......... Then post it .....
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| Apr 4 @ 10:53 PM |
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matisse731
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When a guy plays with my nipples like he's tuning in a radio station. Then you try to tell and show him the right way and he doesn't get it. 
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| Apr 4 @ 11:02 PM |
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blueyes101
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I know I was guilty of that in my youth........ Mostly cause I was so happy to finally touch them 
But, just to add to that, different women liked them touched in different ways, all based on their sensitivity.... And also based on the amount of arousal.......
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| Apr 4 @ 11:05 PM |
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signme
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I had a cat who woke me up every morning by licking my ear. I don't find it sexy now, just annoying! LOL
Unsexy is when not much time is taken--feels too automatic. Also scheduled stayovers! No spontaneity. I'd like to be surprised once in a while.
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| Apr 5 @ 1:12 AM |
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thor22
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well signme...I'd like to send over to your place ol' gomer pyle, hey...surprize, surprize, surprise!!! 
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| Apr 5 @ 10:23 AM |
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Loreli
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SBDs at the dinner table 
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| Apr 5 @ 10:32 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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The MOST UNsexy is the man who either doesn't listen or doesn't believe when I verbalize what I like or don't like .... he feels he knows better and will continue to do something because HE KNOWS it will please me ... And, sadly that just turns it all off.
pfffft
I'm not your last girlfriend. Get to know ME.
Amen Jen! Men can be so sure about what will turn a woman (you...us) on and get her off, but just because the last one enjoyed it in no way means we will. Why so much cockiness (sorry about the pun) and so little exploration?
Give me less skill and more sloppy fun any day! Somone who obviously enjoys what they are doing and not just going through the motions of what has worked in the past. I'm not a Buick that needs it's oil changed...I'm a woman with a totally different body and needs from the last partner (or previous 20)
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| Apr 5 @ 11:00 AM |
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thor22
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wimmens who still have bouncy baby bellies yrs after becoming a mommy...
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