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BUSTED616

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Thanks Pam. But what bothers me is you may even believe that fallacy.In reality, you like me until you see me kidding around and having fun with other women in the forums.Then you get angry, jealous and then comes your snipping attacks in the forums. This has happened several times in the past, and normally I let your attacks roll off my shoulders, and I don't chum the water by responding to them. But since you have admitted after the fact, on several occasions, that you realize you do have issues with jealousy and you need to work on it, maybe posting this will put pressure on you to be a person of your word, and actually do what you say, work on it.
As a friend, or if you choose to consider me a previous friend, I'm not going to give you a free pass for bad behavior, especially when innocent women have been on the receiving end of your jealousy.
I coo and praise Kenn for that outstanding post
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| Jun 2 @ 7:28 PM |
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pamdemonium

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I coo and praise Kaos/Busted for following me around, waiting for a chance to jump out.
Thank you, Kenn. For airing dirty laundry. You rock!
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| Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM |
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Kenn159

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Actually I thought it was pretty restrained considering the length and consistency of your behavior.. Just be nice.
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| Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM |
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pamdemonium

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Actually I thought it was pretty restrained considering the length and consistency of your behavior.. Just be nice. Go on.
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| Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM |
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Kenn159

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Thats all.
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| Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM |
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BandTMom

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Kenn
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| Jun 2 @ 9:51 PM |
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painter007

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Kenn
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| Jun 2 @ 10:01 PM |
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Angel178

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Wow, Kenn seems very kissable tonight...
Girls...this is not the kissing thread
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| Jun 2 @ 10:03 PM |
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painter007

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Praising kisses...silly................
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| Jun 2 @ 10:06 PM |
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Kenn159

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I like it when"Kenn","Girls"and "Kisses" are all in the same couple sentences, kinda next to each other.
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| Jun 2 @ 10:12 PM |
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painter007

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| Jun 2 @ 10:15 PM |
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Kenn159

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Coo and praising Painter
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| Jun 2 @ 11:33 PM |
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Snappygoddess


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I'm really not the cooing type but I will praise all of you.. for just being YOU
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| Jun 2 @ 11:38 PM |
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signme

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Cooing at and praising Snappy for her strength and awesome courage this year!
And I can coo at Kenn too...he's a cat person, MY type of guy! LOL
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| Jun 3 @ 12:09 AM |
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MotownManiax

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Ken makes a good point on the previous page.
It seems every once in awhile the topic of forums flirting needs to be revisited since behavioral intent is not always obvious with some people.
First thing everyone should understand is jealousy’s perfectly natural, especially in a “dating” forums.
But we’re all basically strangers that know little or nothing about each other’s “real” lives. The persona we see and may get carried away with is based on written posts and some pics (for those that choose to share).
We should be equally aware how the power of both those things is even more heightened in such an artificial setting as this and can lead to petty misunderstandings and childish arguments, or the flipside, misplaced hero-worshipping and idolatry.
Most seem to realize this and innocently flirt without any preconditions or expectations. To me, keeping this perspective and checking your emotions at the cyber door is all-important. I try to not get carried away with “anything” someone writes on here unless it demands a response or to clear up confusion that could lead to an even bigger meltdown later.
But we’re all human and make mistakes, so to have a completely harmonious and friction-free forums is asking way too much. All we can do is roll with the punches as best we can, and if things get too uncomfortable or contentious to just take a break, calm down, and reenter with a better appreciation of what all this is really ultimately about -- a simple forums.
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| Jun 3 @ 12:12 AM |
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BandTMom

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Good post, Mo.
Now will you coo if I praise?
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| Jun 3 @ 1:14 AM |
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RavinLunatic

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Oh, crap. I hate myself. I love you, Becky!
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| Jun 3 @ 2:16 AM |
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MotownManiax

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I'll coo and praise both Band and Spirit, how's that?
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| Jun 3 @ 2:27 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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Me too...they're both great ladies! (They just forget to count to ten occasionally)...
Mo of course, for being a totally standup guy. Hard to believe he's not a Libra, he's always so balanced...of course he does share his birthday with someone who'll always be very special to me...no, not Spongey (though I miss him a lot).
Pam, for being her emotional self...and she never hurts anyone more than herself.
Mom, for balance too, and humor.
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| Jun 3 @ 2:43 AM |
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MotownManiax

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Whatever happened to Spongy, Heaven? He's not lurking in here under some fake profile, is he?
Cooing and Praising for Heaven, who I think is one of the most intelligent, insightful posters on here.
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