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shespock
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Basically, I've been a partaking of the dating world (off and on) for over a decade now, and I've noticed a recurring pattern that happens so often, I have learned to expect it.
Every so often, I will attract a male who I seems to be into me, and then he will expect me to make him his top priority, and when I don't (because I, like everyone else, am peppered with the demands of everyday living, such as dental appointments, staff meetings, and vehicle maintenance), all of a sudden he is not afraid to reveal (in many ways, both overt and covert), his sexual preference and enthusiasm for women who are "stacked."
Ladies and gentlement, this has been EVERY MAN I HAVE EVER MET.
What is it he expects to accomplish? Why do you men do this?
Now that I am older and more experienced, when this happens, I pull the plug and it's over, steer straight for the nearest exit ramp. (I reason a man who is Just That Into Me wouldn't send me this sort of signal). Am I over-reacting?
They way I also see it, on another level, what he is really telling me is I am being judged against other women physically, and I perceive this to be a nasty and manipulative tactic to attempt to maim my self-esteem. Which means I HAVE to call it off, regardless of how I feel up to that point.
I am not insecure about my "girls", be them ever so small. I never envied women with big gazoombas. I have always been grateful to God, he didn't make me go through life like that. To me that is not what this is about.
So you gals, and especially you GUYS out there, do I misunderstand anything? What is your opinion (I know I am making myself vulnerable to a lot of flack)?
Three is no handbook on how to deal with this. The way I see it, no one I ever meet is going to last, because it's just a matter of time before they all do it. And then I gotta show them who puts up with whirling turdles and slings it with a catapult right back at 'em.
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| Jul 20 @ 10:46 AM |
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artcat7
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It is truly a shame this has been your experience with every man you've ever met. I happen to know a man whose preference is women with small breasts. I feel fairly certain he can't be the only one is the world who has such a preference. I hope you find one like him or a man like him finds you.
And no, I don't think you're over-reacting.
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| Jul 20 @ 3:28 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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ok..don't shoot the messenger here.....but.. Spock you are not...
Every so often, I will attract a male who I seems to be into me, and then he will expect me to make him his top priority, and when I don't
he looks at boob's... other women....in front of you....
well...are you in a committed relationship..or not??
as for my preference.....
they are all hot.... 
link
but on the other hand....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_5lHeQfLMo
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| Jul 20 @ 4:33 PM |
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shespock
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Let me tell you what . . .
With my ex-husband, the "when I was 19, you're not the type I would go for, physically" speech didn't come around until 3 months after our honeymoon. (After which, I could never look at him again without seeing crosshairs in the way.)
With my last "committed" boyfriend, after I told him I wasn't ready to move in with him, calandars of Missy Uberboobs were posted in obvious places of his apartment to ensure I wouldn't miss it. (i never went back)
Recently, I quit returning calls from someone (who I wasn't even technically dating yet) after having to hear him go on for some time about getting to select busty women on some video game to make out with.
This reflex of theirs seems to be a reaction to somethng which I think is . . . weird. When I am drawn to someone, I consider the whole person - I don't interrupt a conversation to fixate on other men's butts.
So why do you guys do this, huh, huh huh? Tell me. Tell me.
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| Jul 20 @ 4:40 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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I have no clue as to why these three guys did this...
 could it be that they just wanted to hit you where you were the most vunerable??
( this in no way excuses their bad behavior...)
as sometimes... people do not fight fairly in the "love wars"
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| Jul 20 @ 5:04 PM |
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willowy1
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sometimes for chits and giggles I wear a wife-beater sans bra to the store. Things get interesting in the frozen food isle. You wouldn't believe how many men I see get smacked by their wives/girlfriends. 
I love my boobies, no sagging and my nips set up high and smile. 
Spock if that happens again you need to look down at their crotch and shake your pretty head.
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| Jul 20 @ 5:20 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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| Jul 20 @ 5:24 PM |
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Laidback742
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I got dibs on going shopping with Willow ....
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| Jul 20 @ 5:31 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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i'd rather be her chauffeur.......
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| Jul 21 @ 11:17 AM |
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Always_Striving
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I believe that a tight fitting, snug vagina is much more important than boob size.
Maybe that's only me though. Some men enjoy giving the gift of pearl necklaces, so maybe those guys might have small boob issues.
My advise is to keep your top on and work on Kegal exercises instead.
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| Jul 21 @ 12:09 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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My boyfriend prefers small breasts too. In fact, he really doesn't give a rat's behind about breasts at all. He's a leg, hip, and butt man....all of which I have....and he doesn't really ever pay attention to my breasts at all.
People can be cruel. What you've gone through is definitely a real display of human cruelty and you're right you deserve better than that.
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| Jul 21 @ 2:10 PM |
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lj450
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leg, hip, and butt man....
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| Jul 21 @ 2:26 PM |
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Fender
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^^^^^^That's true...He really liked my huge butt.
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| Jul 21 @ 3:48 PM |
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knotkeeno
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i grew up milking cows.....large breasts might get my attention but the person behind them keeps it
small breasts are a bigger turn on for me, always have been 
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| Jul 21 @ 8:18 PM |
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chipperoo64
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I would like to give willow an A+ for that story
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| Jul 21 @ 9:53 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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nah..I grade on the curve....
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| Jul 22 @ 1:09 AM |
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blueyes101
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So why do you guys do this, huh, huh huh? Tell me. Tell me.
I can tell you, I am drawn to look at women with large(r) breasts, not sure why exactly, maybe because I just like boobs in general.
but, I will also tell you, given the choice.......  ......I prefer women with small breasts, mainly for the reasons Willow stated above.
So, I'm trying to say, I may notice women with big breasts, I prefer women with small ones.
I guess all I can think of to compare this to is, tattoo's, if a woman walks in covered or even full of studs piercing through her face, I may look, but she is not the one I want to wake up with, and spend the rest of my life with....
Now, I would never date someone just because of the size of their breasts, big or small, but like I said, I do have a preference. 
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| Jul 22 @ 1:23 AM |
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blueyes101
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Oh, and just to point out one of my favorite sayings about breast's............
Once you've seen one set........................................... you want to see the rest...... 
And all that really means, is you have them, we want them, or at least like to see them, if you walked around topless like in Africa, we might get used to them........
Nah. I was lying........ 
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| Jul 22 @ 2:32 AM |
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youbetcha
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I was married to small for 25+ years and it never became an issue even though I like all sizes and am a guy that enjoys beauty wherever it is. The internal beauty is what ulitmately will win. Work on that. Vengeance is not beautiful.
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| Jul 22 @ 6:34 AM |
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Fender
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I just thought of something...What if you have a big booty and big boobs...Where does that leave me/you?
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