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| Jul 29 @ 5:58 PM |
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Inhiding

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I saw the title of this forum, and thought I would make a general inquiry.
Is dating really supposed to involve sex?
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| Jul 29 @ 6:51 PM |
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Laidback742

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Dating involves whatever works for the two of you, not a preconceived idea of what it is "supposed" to involve .... if you both wanna bump uglies while you're dating, go for it ....
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| Jul 29 @ 8:50 PM |
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DiamondRain

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Dating can involve a lot of things. For physically normal people -- people who have sex drives -- sex is usually one of them at some point. Sex is one of the important reasons that people have romantic relationships, why shouldn't it be one of the important parts of dating?
Since you don't reveal your age, I don't know it. But if you are 18 or older, which you are supposed to be to be on this site, I think the more sensible question is how is it possible that you are surprised by this?
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| Jul 29 @ 11:16 PM |
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Say_Yes

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Since you don't reveal your age, I don't know it. But if you are 18 or older, which you are supposed to be to be on this site, I think the more sensible question is how is it possible that you are surprised by this? Maybe he is married. After all, sex & marriage are often mutually exclusive terms.
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| Jul 30 @ 12:22 AM |
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MotownManiax

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I could think of one woman I'd never tire of having sex with. Secret though.
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| Jul 30 @ 1:03 AM |
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Always_Striving

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Not all dating involves sex. There are certainly many women "out there" that are looking for schmucks to take them out and buy them dinner and in return they say bye and thanks while they get ready to bone some other dude that evening. A guy who knows how to treat those attention whores just like they really desire to be treated ..... like their tramp fantasy and not like ladies.
Gold digging women usually look for sugar daddys that can be satisfied with just a hug and kiss on the cheek. Those ones too prefer to bone gangsta rappers over gentlemen.
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| Jul 30 @ 8:21 AM |
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mysterious30165

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Wait there are men out there that buy dinner before sex ????? LMAO ......See what the hell i have been missing....And here I thought you always went straight to the Ky and plastic sheets....damn I could be having dinner first.
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| Jul 30 @ 10:47 AM |
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BluEyedQT

Posts: 498
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Wait there are men out there that buy dinner before sex ????? Nah, he was just kidding.
...about buying dinner first that is.
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| Jul 30 @ 3:56 PM |
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willowy1

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Dating should involve sex if you can get him to commit to monogamy but not get any nasty ideas about marriage, because that chit is a trap!
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| Jul 30 @ 3:58 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin

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There it is. My dream relationship. Conjugal visits and get the hell out. But don't screw anybody else either.
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| Jul 30 @ 4:02 PM |
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willowy1

Posts: 9,181
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seems like a good arrangement to me!
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| Jul 30 @ 7:04 PM |
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JenRNinOhio

Posts: 4,157
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I forgot what I was going to say.
Or probably I didn't really have anything to say.
I mean, I kind of have thoughts but I don't think I can arrange them into anything that makes sense.
What was the question?
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| Jul 30 @ 7:51 PM |
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Strata2007

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I suppose this "dating" you speak of is not numerous "one night" stands after "going out" with various persons of the opposite sex.
Decisions are made by the decider (whom one must assume is competent to decide and accept the aftermath).
Perhaps one should ask the face in the mirror after a bout of wantoness, "Am I being devalued or revalued?"
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| Sep 26 @ 3:33 PM |
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spacecowboy1966

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Why Go through the process of asking someone out and accepting an invitation to go out if their isn't a sexual attractiveness? Although dating doesn't always lead to sex...That's why he asks you out in the first place...he thinks you're hot....Most men don't ask you out if they aren't interested in having sex with you....
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| Sep 26 @ 5:27 PM |
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soccerlovinguy22

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I personally dont think dating has to involve sex. sure, there might be the time when both sides agree to it, no worries....but i dont think that should be the driving force behind dating.
ive had awesome times with girls, no sex involved, just cruising, talkin, listening, and "emotionally" connecting.....sometimes its more rewarding than just sex! I mean there are many many more facets to all of us, apart from how we do between the sheets! why not explore these other facets!
but thats just my opinion!
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| Sep 26 @ 6:34 PM |
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Sweetheart83446

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Is dating really supposed to involve sex? Nope, having sex in the earlier stages of a relationship usually makes people have feelings for the other person they are not yet supposed to have.
Why would you want to give it up so soon anyway? Getting to know the person is a bit more important to me than getting off.
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| Sep 26 @ 6:46 PM |
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ABetterMan

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Surely it doesn't have to! Because if it DOES... I've been doing things wrong all these years!
Talking about it. Flirting about it. Making you think about it. Is just about as good as getting it. Problem is, no one talks about it anymore. With my eyesight, I just can't do "TEXT SEX".
Maybe I have turned into an fogey of advanced age!
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| Sep 26 @ 7:02 PM |
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JenRNinOhio

Posts: 4,157
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"..Talking about it. Flirting about it. Making you think about it. Is just about as good as getting it..."
There's been many a weekend evening here at MD forums... where, aided & abetted by wine consumption I have talked & flirted about it ... & I will respectfully disagree... That's NOT even CLOSE to just about as good as getting it. (If I remember correctly)
"Maybe I have turned into an fogey of advanced age!"
WHAT??? If YOU are *of advanced age* ... then I must be dam near ancient. So KNOCK IT OFF, K?
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| Sep 26 @ 8:43 PM |
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BandTMom

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Dating is getting to know the other person.
Dating with sex because a relationship.
Disclaimer.......this is my opinion only.
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| Sep 26 @ 10:08 PM |
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MrPaul

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