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Mar 8, 2006 @ 4:42 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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Really, do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with, whether you are really interested in her or attracted to her or not?
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 5:28 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
mangolover60


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Well, that depends on what you mean by "try".

Is it a thought that crosses my mind? I'd be lying if I said it didn't.

Unbuttoning her blouse, well........
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 8:02 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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well, maybe trying to unbutton my blouse.
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 8:04 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
Say_Yes


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No, I don't try to sex with every woman that I go out with, but, if I was not interested in having sex with her, then I would not go out with her.
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 8:42 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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But, yes, say you did meet her and were not really interested in her or attracted to her, would you still try?
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 9:31 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
SwaggerNStrut


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No, I wouldn't. I have standards. However, if I was feeling lonely and desparate and had a few drinks in me, then yeah.

But I'm never lonely or desparate. However I usually have a few drinks in me.
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 9:31 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
Say_Yes


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Okay, if for some reason I went out with someone that I was not physically attracted to, then no, I would not try to get her into bed.
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Mar 8, 2006 @ 9:38 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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Just trying to figure out men and how they think. Lol, also am curious as to whether they are desperate or I am desirable. I imagine I am not the only woman who would like this question answered. I just somehow got the idea that men were just about sex and what they could get.
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Mar 9, 2006 @ 6:20 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
definitelydi


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That's a good point, Bevrice. Are they jusy horny or are you just too hot for them to resist?! I choose option B!

I usually won't go out with someone I wouldn't want to have sex with either! That doesn't mean it will happen, but it has to be within the realm of possibilty!
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Mar 9, 2006 @ 7:00 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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No, you are so right, I wouldn't go out with someone I wouldn't have sex with either, but am not going to have sex on the first date, or until I get to know someone and know that I really like them as a person, that I could come to like them for much more than just a friend.

Sorry, guys, but you all, on the other hand seem to be all about sex right off the bat, in a little too much of a hurry for me, and I usually wind up not going out with yall again because it seems that you just want me for sex. Now, don't get me wrong, no one loves sex or wants more sex than I do, but not just with anyone, and not just to be having sex. I want to make love, not just have sex with you. I want to want you because I care about you, like you and could care about you a lot more.
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Mar 9, 2006 @ 8:11 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
Always_Striving


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Right, sex is generally physical pleasure for men and mental or emotional for women.
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Mar 9, 2006 @ 8:16 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
bevrice


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Is very physical as well with us, as well as emotional and mental. It is a combination of all of these that makes it wonderful.
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Mar 10, 2006 @ 8:54 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
exiled131


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not really. we tend to choose finalists to date and at the end of the week- we pick a few to have sex with based on certain criteria.
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Mar 10, 2006 @ 11:15 PM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
swingpup


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Depending upon the woman....Sometime it's try not to.
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Mar 11, 2006 @ 11:02 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
chinabull2000


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Of course not... I've met quite a few women from online, and some of them I simply haven't been physically attracted to, so I don't try to have sex with them, I just turn it into a friends kind of thing instead.
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Mar 12, 2006 @ 12:59 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
sissycat411


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China...
I've met quite a few women from online, and some of them I simply haven't been physically attracted to, so I don't try to have sex with them, I just turn it into a friends kind of thing instead


This is in no way a criticism to you or any of the guys....

But this is what I seem to find.....I have no problem in a man being sexually attracted to me....but I want to get to know the man better, see if we have the same interest, are traveling the same road, headed in the same direction......In other words...are we looking for the same things.......a committed relationship.....

It tells me a lot, about a guys intentions, if the first evening out......he is more interested in getting me to bed, than getting to know who I really am....

Since...I have no desire, to be a notch on someones ego stick, or to be the one to relieve his sexual tensions...just because he needs to lay someone......I don't consider having sex...when we first meet......Also, if I have no interest in considering them as someone I might consider having a long term relationship with....I just don't accept a second date with them....

What I find, in what I call shallow men, men with out respect for women, men just looking to get laid....is they get upset, take it very personal, try to change your mind, become pushy and consider it a rejection, which reflects very badly on them.....which in no way is it....its just selection and the process......

As a woman.....am I reading the red flags and signals correct???
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Mar 12, 2006 @ 1:11 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
Wulfchyld


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Depends on how much money we are talking about. I have had a new ATM/credit card swipe inserted behind my ear, so it’s easily negotiable.



I am a real friendly person and get along great with most everyone. There is some kind of weird connection I have to have before the Hubba Hubba switch kicks on. I really cant put m finger on it, it is the looks, the smile, the eyes, and what she has to say. Every once in a great while I get that connection then it is terminator mode… I can think of little more than her company. Not so much sexually, yet it is there, but a hunger to know more and experience more of this fascinating person.
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Mar 12, 2006 @ 1:29 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
LipGlossQueen9


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i know a few guys that only take girls out for sex.

but...and i'm talking about 18-year-old guys here...the majority of guys I know, personally (I know nerds, just to let you know before you go telling me I don't know anything about 18-year-old guys) are more interested in having a relationship with a girl than having sex with a girl.
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Mar 12, 2006 @ 1:32 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
sissycat411


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I have considered a "stable" of young stallions in Vegas...grin care to submit an application??? wicked grin
The ATM/swipe card thing would definitely be to your advantage.....too cute

Every once in a great while I get that connection then it is terminator mode… I can think of little more than her company. Not so much sexually, yet it is there, but a hunger to know more and experience more of this fascinating person.


This is that special feeling....that only comes along in a great while...and I think ....the one we all search for....and the key that turns the lock...for most of us women......its not that a guy you met...isn't nice in his own way....it's just that special ingredient isn't there.....still doesn't mean...a woman, who values who she is and what she has to offer...is going to jump in that bed....until....there is some foundation of trust built.. .

Some refer to it as courting.....getting to know you....like show me who the real you is......is that asking for too much??? I don't think so.....


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Mar 12, 2006 @ 1:40 AM Do you guys try to have sex with every woman you go out with?    
LipGlossQueen9


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I meant conventional "nerds", sissy, video game-loving, star wars obsessed, know-everything-about computers nerds. They are not ashamed of this label...they toss it about like it's nothing....in fact they're rather proud of it. I hang out with them because they're not like the other guys.
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