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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 7:37 PM |
This one is for all the married men on here who say their wvies
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bevrice
Posts: 11,144
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I wish I had a penny for everytime a married man has im'd me and when I ask him why he is writing to women and he says that his wife no longer is interested in him because she lost interest in intimate activities when she went through menopause.
Now that sex expert, the Johanson lady on tv said last night that when women go through normal menopause, their sex drive stays the same. Women who have a total hysterectomy have a somewhat diminished libido, but not much.
Now, for all you married men, if your wife doesn't want you that way anymore, do you think maybe that is because of the way you have treated her, or your sexual skills?
I don't think it is because they have lost their interest in sex, but maybe their interest in you.
Maybe it is just because you want to fool around.
Does anyone else have any ideas on this, and do you guys looking for someone on the side have any response to this.
Lol, now that we know the truth, yall are going to have to find a different line to use on us.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 9:20 AM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Hmmm interesting topic..I can actually say that I have not cheated on any partner I have ever had.
Dont get me wrong..I have been in long term relationships and dumped my GF simply b/c I was sexually attracted to another gal...
I took the fact that I was interested in another person that way to mean I was losing interest in my current GF...
I found that to not always hold true however as sometimes I feel some remorse yet I can stay proud knowing I did not cheat..
I will admit I have HELPED a wife or 2 cheat...
Thats bad(to be the other man) but also it was just sex..no relationship involved..
The reply I get from women as to why they cheat is ...attention or time that they are NOT getting at home..
Interesting.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 10:24 AM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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Bevrice-- I have also been contacted by married men ---
they think -- they are doing us a favor by wanting to have
sex with us. Bulls*** ---
I agree with you -- it could be because the wife has been treated badly, not paid attention to her, shows her no apprecitaion and just takes her for granted that she will always be there.
I was married for 11 years, sometimes I would feel like I
didn't even exist to him --- until bedtime. If that was the only time I could get his attention--- bye. Who needs it. Hell, you gotta turn the key before the car will run, not just put gas in it.
And I agree with kinglouis--- women cheat for attention & affection -- not sex.
[Edited on 3/29/2006 10:34 AM]
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 3:45 PM |
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bevrice
Posts: 11,144
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thank you, zulu for reinforcing what I had to say. I get tired of it, they seem to never give up. They beg, cajole, offer up one excuse after another through an outrageous abundance of emails. Then after a while, you get this crude email from them calling you everything but something nice. No wonder their wives don't want them, it is then that their true colors come out.
Prince, it is interesting that the women want time, attention, and all you were offering them was sex. I am sure their hubbys were more than willing to do the same for them, most of them are, lol. By the way, prince, that is a good way to get your head blown off. Their is an unwritten law in Texas, that if a man catches his wife in bed with another man, he can shoot him on the spot and pretty much get away with it scot free. Don't think I would want to be in that position.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 3:49 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Prince, it is interesting that the women want time, attention, and all you were offering them was sex. I am sure their hubbys were more than willing to do the same for them, most of them are, lol. By the way, prince, that is a good way to get your head blown off. Their is an unwritten law in Texas, that if a man catches his wife in bed with another man, he can shoot him on the spot and pretty much get away with it scot free. Don't think I would want to be in that position.
Sorry that name was given to me and it stuck..but if you wanna u can call me prince...
LOL
anyway..I never went to their home territory bev..they came to mine so VERY unlikely to be caught..
and yes it was VERY interesting that while they were lacking attention from hubby all they got was sex from me perhaps I made them feel SEXY some way their hubbies werent?
I certainly went all out with them sexually and they were very appreciative after the fact as well..And yes I am still friends with one of them and we still "talk" on occasion... but other than i do prefer NOT to have sex w/married women..
but GAWD that one is SOOOOOOO hot bev I cannot resist...
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 4:05 PM |
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bevrice
Posts: 11,144
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lol, I turned a king into a prince, wow, I am doing good.
You know, sugar, what goes around comes around. That is sure as the sun coming up in the morning and going down at night. The problem is, it usually comes back to us a WHOLE lot worse than it went out. So, if I don't want that stuff to come back at me with a vengeance, I am not going to send it out.
You would be surprised how many people hire detectives now days if they get suspicious, so safe, hmmm, don't know about that.
Besides, and I hope you use condoms, I bet they have lots of others they fool around with, too. Once they start, they usually do, and don't think that they are truthful with you about that. If they were honest and truthful, they wouldn't be cheating with you, you know.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 4:11 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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bev I have NO illusions as to who or why these women do what they do..
I pretty much Have been through the ringer as well..the comes around goes around thing..well it hit me 1st...lol
you would think I learned my lesson...maybe I have..
But of course the women dont tell ya he's a great guy and such..you hear what a jerk he is, how he is never home, how he doenst even touch her anyomore.so and and so on..of course I BUY it..why?
Cuz i want to...Gorgeous woman, no commitment. sex that is out of this world and of course with me she is open minded..The 1st time we had sex it was in front of about a dozen ppl...
so no detective needed.. 
Now that was a year ago..if she called me today to meet her again(we still talk now and again) would I go ..mebee,,,
But back to original topic..I guess what you had to say applies to both parties..men and women...and I have found there are several scandelous women all over and the internet made it a whole lot easier...
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 4:17 PM |
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bevrice
Posts: 11,144
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I am laughing, but really, it is not so funny. Your profile says your kids are living with you. You do all this with them there?
Hmmm, and why be afraid of committment, then you could have great sex ALL the time? Just because they are married doesn't make them better at sex, you know.
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 4:24 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Bev,
Like I said we have had sex very few times but all she calls me for IS sex..
and yes married does not=great sex...lol..
no my child is not with me while i am having sex with anyone..i am a single dad not a stupid dad..
Of course this is not a relationship I have and I dont consider it as such..I originally posted b/c men was the topic and I was trying to point out women are the same..only they dont have to lie to get sex from a man..for the most part if they look good enough a simple "I am horny" will suffice for 70-80% of men out there..
And yep men will come here and deny that BUT reality is that I speak the truth..
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| Mar 29, 2006 @ 4:28 PM |
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bevrice
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You speak the truth, lol, but women don't have to even do that. All we have to do is agree to go to dinner with a man and he thinks all systems are go.
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| Apr 4, 2006 @ 4:25 AM |
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lilbikerchick
Posts: 213
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I completely agree with kinglouis2005. I think women cheat for the affection and attention. If these married men spent more time paying attention to their wives instead of setting up profiles on dating sites, neither would have an urge to cheat. I tried to explain to an ex one time that I can get more attention from a complete stranger than I could from him. His only reply was that the attention wasn't sincere, it was just to get in my bed. Hmmm, Mr Ex, that's a thought. attention=sex. If a bunch of guys in a crowded think it could work, there might be something to that. 
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| Apr 6, 2006 @ 8:59 AM |
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bevrice
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liber, you ex could have been right, you know, especially if he was your ex husband. Men generally go out with married women for just one thing, they certainly aren't looking for love and marriage, and don't have to worry about strings and committment, it is just free sex, and the women are being used, some attention, like they need that. They are just taking advantage of the woman's need for attention, maybe love. Sorry, guys, but you know it is true.
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| Apr 6, 2006 @ 8:47 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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bev we could "flip the script" on that one.
Why cant we say the women are using sex to get attention from the man..
A tactic that women keep well into marriage(using sex for this or that )
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| Apr 7, 2006 @ 7:59 AM |
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bevrice
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Don't fool yourself, those women are looking for much more than casual sex, and most would be thrilled if you fell in love with them and became their knight in shining armour and carried them away from their unattentive man on your white steed, lol.
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| Apr 7, 2006 @ 9:24 AM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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I understand that too bev but there is manipulation going on with both sides..once married(if ya plan on sticking around) the woman actually uses sex for mundane stuff...THAT stinks!!!!!!
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| Apr 8, 2006 @ 3:40 PM |
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WickedWench
Posts: 1,613
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I understand that too bev but there is manipulation going on with both sides
It's not just men that do skanky things here. Why is it always about bashing men? They are the only other creatures we have to mate with  so why not either learn that they're not all perfect (just like women aren't) or take a break until the venom doesn't flow so freely?
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| Apr 8, 2006 @ 6:23 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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take a break until the venom doesn't flow so freely? Yeah, please Bev, take a break, WW's a psychologist!
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| Apr 8, 2006 @ 7:27 PM |
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walkingman
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It takes 2. I am sure there are married women who contact men to . It goe's both way's.
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| Apr 8, 2006 @ 8:28 PM |
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AngelLight
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Like many women, I get e-mails from married men as well.
My response is always exactly the same:
"Go home and love your wife. If that doesn't work, go home and love your wife. If that still doesn't work have the balls to tell her the truth about your unhappiness, try to work it out or just leave if you must."
Then I simply block the person.....I will never engage in any further communication beyond that.....
I never hear from them again.
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| Apr 12, 2006 @ 2:35 AM |
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lilbikerchick
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A tactic that women keep well into marriage(using sex for this or that
I personally do not know of a woman that has ever said that. I have never nor have any females I know ever withheld sex to get what they want. My point was, if you're being ignored by your partner, the last thing you're thinking at the end of the day is sex.
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