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Mar 29, 2006 @ 7:22 PM Sad & True    
mikeoutthere


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Most of the people hide their sexual fantasies so well in life that eventually they end-up with someone in marriage, with whom they can not experience their full sexuality.
I think that the British are way more open when it comes to experimenting with sex and don’t make a big deal out of it, as we do.
What do you think ?
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Mar 29, 2006 @ 7:42 PM Sad & True    
mailorderannie


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they end-up with someone in marriage, with whom they can not experience their full sexuality.


I don't think that's a fair assumption. I never had that problem nor did any of my friends.
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Mar 29, 2006 @ 7:53 PM Sad & True    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


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^^^I`m with her on this one..^^^
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Mar 29, 2006 @ 8:44 PM Sad & True    
luvshorses644


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K.. and maybe I am way off on this, but if you are "involved" in a physical relationship for a time with your SO before you get married (and I truely believe most people are) I would think that you both have "experimented" with sexual fantasies prior to marriage and you should pretty much have an idea as to whether or not you are compatible here. And, since we are all adults, isn't this a topic of discussion with your partner?
Maybe not, maybe it is just my opinion.
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Mar 29, 2006 @ 8:49 PM Sad & True    
EyesofBlue72660


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Most of the people hide their sexual fantasies so well in life

I have received several introduction e-mails just from men on this site that have revealed their sexual fantasies more than I cared to know!
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Mar 29, 2006 @ 8:53 PM Sad & True    
Loreli


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I agree with Luvs. Two people should have gotten to a point where there are few surprises in their sex lives as far as that they like experimenting. Although there may be some new experiments, it should be known in advance that you like doing that...
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Mar 30, 2006 @ 12:37 AM Sad & True    
painter007


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I havent had any trouble experimenting with the one Im with...and as you can tell Im pretty open about my likes and dislikes but that does not mean I give it out freely.
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Mar 30, 2006 @ 12:53 AM Sad & True    
garymiko


Posts: 882
I have this fantasy of having sex........
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Mar 30, 2006 @ 5:33 AM Sad & True    
Cupcake43130


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^^^^ I have that same fantasy............
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Mar 30, 2006 @ 6:06 AM Sad & True    
willsmalto


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very few people haven't experienced full sexuality before marriage.

To the best of my knowledge, I think marriage is like two people(husband and wife) who agree to live together cos they have a lot in common especially sexually..oops am I right here?

sex does strenghten marriage, hmmmmmmmm?
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 2:56 PM Sad & True    
mikeoutthere


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Why do women insist on snuggling after sex?
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:06 PM Sad & True    
torees121


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I don't hide my fantasies from anyone. I am pretty open sexually, so a guy knows what I want from the beginning.
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:08 PM Sad & True    
mailorderannie


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Mike...this is for you
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:11 PM Sad & True    
mikeoutthere


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Thank you.....
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:19 PM Sad & True    
swingpup


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I think that the British are way more open when it comes to experimenting with sex and don’t make a big deal out of it, as we do.


Most all European countries without a doubt in fact possess a much more liberal as well as open view on sex then the U.S.

they end-up with someone in marriage, with whom they can not experience their full sexuality.


I would concur with that statement that it does occur. Males have a choice, either they are open with their partner relating to their sexuality, fantasies, wishes and desires or they aren't.

Some males prefer to suppress their true sexual desires as well as their fantasies from their partner in the "dating" stages for fear that she will be "out of here."

Once the relationship escalates to marriage and after walking down the isle they then bring out their sexual fantasies only to sometimes discover their partner either has the same desire to explore or they don't.

If only total communications was alive and well in every relationship things would be so much more fun, relaxing and enjoyable.

Why do women insist on snuggling after sex?


Probably not all do......Most however probably do and that's a good thing. It's feels soooooooo good, at least from this males perspective.
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:28 PM Sad & True    
luvshorses644


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Mike.. this woman doesn't INSIST on snuggling, but dang.. I sure do love it.. it allows me to touch the one person in this world I love who loves me back.. I smile when I can do this.. it is like a sigh with feelings...
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:28 PM Sad & True    
mikeoutthere


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Why do women always ask if you think other women are attractive ?
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 3:38 PM Sad & True    
luvshorses644


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Heck.. I don't ALWAYS ASK.. sometimes, I even point them out.. beauty is beauty.. I think for some it may be to reassure themselves they are still attractive in their SO's eyes, or to get a sense of the SO's likes/dislikes.. but, if my guy doesn't notice a really beautiful woman.. I would have to think I might have to watch him look at other guys (only joking, maybe not??) or that he is too afraid to be himself around me.. and that is not good either.. so to avoid it.. just discuss it, no insecurities, no accusations, nada... cuz, if Adrian Paul, Sam Elliott or Alan Jackson are EVER within eyesight of me and I am with my guy.. I WILL be looking at them!!! Beauty is beauty is beauty.
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 5:25 PM Sad & True    
painter007


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I cuddle after sex cuz I like to feel the arms wrapped around and legs all tangled...And I dont ask if you or him or whoever think someone is attractive....who cares.
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Mar 31, 2006 @ 5:32 PM Sad & True    
Loreli


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Is cuddling a sexual fantasy?
I guess I never saw it as one...I love doing that, then sometimes I like my arms and legs all over the dang place. I don't think I ask anybody if they think somebody particular is attractive. If I think somebody is I say it.
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