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Apr 10, 2006 @ 11:29 AM masturbate before date?    
Atone74


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Okay I met this lady online, we met up before, for like 20 minutes. It was during our lunch hour. Anyway, she called me up Friday night and asked to go have a few drinks. Her day's off are Wednesday and Thursday.. So we are going out Tuesday after she get's off work. She's been texting me with alot of sexual things she wants to do to me... Pretty Graphic... I have not been laid in a few months, so of course one masturbates, no big deal. But, should we (men) do it before a date? Taking a chance of not having a climax during sex? What are your thoughts?
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 11:33 AM masturbate before date?    
AngelLight


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Do what you feel like doing.

I hardly think you will have trouble later in the evening based on what you've shared
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 11:48 AM masturbate before date?    
Atone74


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I just don't want to take a chance and climaxing to early either...
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 11:49 AM masturbate before date?    
richmondcowgirl83


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I noticed with my ex (I'm not sure all men are like this) but if he got off before we go out somewhere he acts like a decent human being instead of a total hornball. So I support it.
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 11:54 AM masturbate before date?    
AngelLight


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If you don't want to take the chance Atone, don't do it then....sounds like you know your own body pretty well. That's a very good thing.

Listen to what you already know about yourself (and want for yourself) and act accordingly
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 4:15 PM masturbate before date?    
definitelydi


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DooD! If it's been awhile for ya, you'd probably climax more quickly than you'd like whether you stroke one off before hand (pun intended) or not! I personally wouldn't hold it against a man as long as I'm pleased over all!
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 5:54 PM masturbate before date?    
spongebob777


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It doesn't really matter. I can always go again. Besides, I'm not nearly as "goal oriented" as I was in my youth.
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Apr 10, 2006 @ 5:57 PM masturbate before date?    
WickedWench


Posts: 1,613
Always.

Then I'm not tempted...well...not as much.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 1:08 PM masturbate before date?    
swingpup


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Choking the chicken before a "date".....That's an interesting concept.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 2:08 PM masturbate before date?    
BigDaddy1954


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I've done it before a date. Not to prolong anything, I just enjoy doing it.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 2:41 PM masturbate before date?    
mangolover60


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Why masterbate before a date?

Why not just save both orgasms for her?
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 6:11 PM masturbate before date?    
someone_me


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I'm with mango, go for the two-in-one special.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 10:29 PM masturbate before date?    
WickedWench


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Mango and Someone

Maybe he isn't going to have sex with her that nite. OR......maybe she isn't going to have sex on the first date.

Ever think of that? Then you're just frustrated walking around with a woody and that can't be pleasant.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 10:40 PM masturbate before date?    
Always_Striving


Posts: 7,596
Hey Bro, It's time you drove to Hollywood Video and rent the movie called
"There's something about Mary".

Observe the diaolg between Ben Stiller's character and Chris Elliot's character...... It's called "the loaded gun theory".

Report back to this forum with your findings.
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 11:05 PM masturbate before date?    
JenRNinOhio


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So atone...Is this going to count as your 1st date?
Or was the first 20 minute lunch meet the 1st date?

Just askin'
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Apr 11, 2006 @ 11:40 PM masturbate before date?    
Atone74


Posts: 335
hmmm good question. I thought it was a date when I began this thread. After further conversations with her, I find out it's a sexual thing.. She just called, she'll be here in one hour, gives me time to locate my condoms lol
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Apr 12, 2006 @ 9:12 PM masturbate before date?    
Greystone1


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So atone...Is this going to count as your 1st date?
Or was the first 20 minute lunch meet the 1st date?


A very important question. According to his professed value system, if this is a first date, he will not respect her in the morning. I wonder if she would go out with him if she realized that he will be calling her a slut tomorrow.
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Apr 12, 2006 @ 9:15 PM masturbate before date?    
RAKS37


Posts: 611
I've lost track of how long I've been inbetween.

So?

If I'm feeling lucky

Should I rub two off.




I crack me up.
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Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:01 AM masturbate before date?    
Atone74


Posts: 335
A very important question. According to his professed value system, if this is a first date, he will not respect her in the morning. I wonder if she would go out with him if she realized that he will be calling her a slut tomorrow.


Hey please feel free to quote me on any post I've ever made here where I said I would ever bash a woman? I respect women and will never call a lady a slut. If she sleeps with me the 1st night, sure I'll lose some respect, keyword "some". But, will I give the relationship a try? Of course I woud!! Will I lower myself to bash her? Not!! Will I call her a slut? Not!! I'm as guilty as she is, to accept the offer. So if I call her a slut what would that make me? I don't prejudge as you seem to love to do. You need your facts straight.... Just because respect is lost does not qualify me to call anyone a slut.. So your saying if one loses respect for a woman she is automatically labeled a slut!! Wow, I amazed how people can totaly be so obtuse, senseless to have such barnyard thinking.

[Edited on 4/13/2006 12:15 AM]
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Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:43 PM masturbate before date?    
someone_me


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maybe she isn't going to have sex on the first date.

Ever think of that?


No, it never crossed my mind. You mean that actually happens, the not having sex on a first date?
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