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Apr 24, 2006 @ 8:33 AM What not to say......    
ChgoSingleDad


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Have you ever been amorously engaged, and things are going well...the sex is hot, and happenin' and then your partner says something the turns you off like someone threw a switch...

What was it that was said, or what is it you don't like being told/called when having sex?


My example: this was several years ago, after my first divorce. I went out on a couple of dates with this one woman, and things were going well. On our first time in the sack, it was shaping up to be a lot of fun.... during the course of the intercourse, passion was building and then she said: "Oh yes, be my daddy, f**** me I'm your little girl"....... That just about completely killed the mood....what was hot passion, all of the sudden became nothing because of a poor choice of words. Maybe saying that had turned on other lovers, but it didn't turn me on...

Now, don't get me wrong.... I don't mind "dirty talk" during sex at all, but that phrase blew it for me. It has never happened since, with anyone else, but I there are certain things I don't want to hear in bed... and being called "daddy" was one of them..... ewwwwwww

As for everyone else....is there any verbal line that shouldn't be crossed with you?

Thoughts please

(edited because it didn't sound right)

[Edited on 4/24/2006 9:42 AM]
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 9:35 AM What not to say......    
HarleysB_WV


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LMAO! I know what you mean chgo!!!!! Instant turn off for me is when you're having sex and the guy can't quit telling you how good he is doing. "Isn't that great?" "You know I'm the best you ever had!" "Just call me God!" "Tell me how good it is!"WTF are these men thinking??? I'm thinking, "buddy, you aint all that and you aint getting the job done, now GET OFF!!!"(and I don't mean orgasm!)
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 9:40 AM What not to say......    
ChgoSingleDad


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Harley

Ah yes, us men and our ego......
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 9:51 AM What not to say......    
soul_decisions


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Harley good one I have had one call me a *hore and **ut and instant turn off......not my cup of tea and also had a silent lover, now what's up with that?? how can one get involved in a good lovemaking if your partner says nothing and not even so far as touch you?? maybe it stems from their first experiences, who knows
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 10:58 AM What not to say......    
mangolover60


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good lovemaking if your partner says nothing and not even so far as touch you??

Now, this is interesting. Sex without touching?
Geez, I can't even do that myself!
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 12:22 PM What not to say......    
kinglouis2005


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wow...heh I guess its about reading your partner..I like to talk but the nature of the talk can range from "do u like that" to "bark like a monkey woman!"
depending of course..
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 12:38 PM What not to say......    
HarleysB_WV


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"bark like a monkey woman!"


ROFLMMFAO!!!!!!!!!

If he says that to me I'm gonna grab a banana and give HIM a reason to "bark like a monkey"!!!!!
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 1:38 PM What not to say......    
definitelydi


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You know what kills the mood more than saying, "Phuck me, you dirty little kunt face?" When you're sucking him off and he FARTS. Not just once...but TWICE.
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 1:48 PM What not to say......    
ChgoSingleDad


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That's the same as a girl saying....

"Lick me like a popsicle" and then cuts loose..... eeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 3:06 PM What not to say......    
swingpup


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Hell, I must be leading a sheltered life....where do you find these women???
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 5:42 PM What not to say......    
spongebob777


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"Can my dad watch?" usually does it for me.
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 7:07 PM What not to say......    
waterfire


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Harley
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Apr 24, 2006 @ 7:12 PM What not to say......    
Say_Yes


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Hmm, I have found asking "Do you think your room mate would like to join us?" to be a bad idea. Of course, that was years ago, back in my college days, but I think the current equivalent would hold true.
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 12:07 AM What not to say......    
ButterflyRei


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ROFL...God, this thread is cracking me up!!!

Well, not too long ago one guy said to me "What would your husband say about me f**king you?" and other thigns like that. I was going though my divorce at the time and when he said that it just killed the mood for me. I was like "Won't he just shut up!!!" I like dirty talk but not too much or complete silence.

Plus, There are better things to do with your mouth than talk.
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 12:24 AM What not to say......    
Mattfishin


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I suppose sayin' ' I'm kumming..open wide for your protein surprise' isnt that much of a turn on.
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 12:53 AM What not to say......    
greenizenora


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When you're sucking him off and he FARTS. Not just once...but TWICE.

Oh, hell no. . .

a silent lover

Is this even possible?

For me it's the "C" word. Gawd, it just sounds so nasty.

I learned to never tell a guy, "Your dad really likes this."
I was kidding. . .he found no humor in it.
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 3:53 AM What not to say......    
RAKS37


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So how do you think

Wahoo look at that butt jiggle

would go over
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 7:01 AM What not to say......    
mailorderannie


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No good unless she knows you like jigglebutts

and...I still can't believe you've got a pic of your foot on here!
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 11:29 AM What not to say......    
painter007


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"Oh yes, be my daddy, f**** me I'm your little girl"....... That just about completely killed the mood....what was hot passion, all of the sudden became nothing because of a poor choice of words. Maybe saying that had turned on other lovers, but it didn't turn me on...


LOL It is amazing what people will say....thankfully I havent heard one that kills the mood.....Just some good old fashion nasty talk and moaning for me!
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Apr 25, 2006 @ 12:12 PM What not to say......    
willsmalto


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I broke up with this chick while still inside of her when she answered a frigging call. well my 'tool" did break up with her, not me...LOL. I was turned off by her action and not her words. itz just like doing a gal while she's busy reading a book or a newspaper. what do you expect out of this?






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