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Sex on the first date?


May 1, 2006 @ 8:44 PM Sex on the first date?    
shamrocksweetrose


Posts: 23
Yes or No?

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May 1, 2006 @ 8:46 PM Sex on the first date?    
Pete73052


Posts: 19,368
Yes please... are you buying?
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May 1, 2006 @ 8:47 PM Sex on the first date?    
HARDNTX


Posts: 125
you betcha
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:11 PM Sex on the first date?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
never no way and it takes more than a coupledates to get me in bed...but once you do plan on staying a very long time.
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:25 PM Sex on the first date?    
Pete73052


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So Painter - you've never felt like you wanted to push the issue? You must have been tempted at some time... (Just curious and nosey).

Oh, and Hardntx - I wasn't offering to you... but thanks anyway.
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:46 PM Sex on the first date?    
spongebob777


Posts: 7,904
I'm giving it a good shellacin right now.

(that's one way of preventing any pesky sex on a first date)
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:51 PM Sex on the first date?    
painter007


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I have never been with someone on a first date.. I feel what I have to give to a man is a gift...and it should be unwrapped slowly...taking in all the special paper thats its wrapped in...And then when its unwrapped there is the special prize...Everyone is tempted aaaaaaaand man its hard to say no....especially with all the kissing....but I just dont think sleeping on the first date is agood idea.........I like to save something. But after that first time...Its hard to tear me off.
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:54 PM Sex on the first date?    
MotownManiax


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But after that first time...Its hard to tear me off.


Oh heart, be still.
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May 1, 2006 @ 9:59 PM Sex on the first date?    
paperchase417


Posts: 101
This is stupid, immature, sexist or whatever you wanna call it, but this is candidly how I feel about sex on the first date.

I'm gonna try for it, but if I get my way, I'm gonna lose a lot of respect for the girl.
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May 1, 2006 @ 10:06 PM Sex on the first date?    
HARDNTX


Posts: 125
Pete I was answering the yes or no question put forth by shamrocksweetrose one post above you....timing is everything
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May 1, 2006 @ 10:28 PM Sex on the first date?    
AngelLight


Posts: 5,464
I'm gonna try for it, but if I get my way, I'm gonna lose a lot of respect for the girl.

Paper, why would you use someone to get your rocks off and then lose respect for them? Would you lose any respect for yourself......

Doesn't sound stupid, immature or sexist.....it is



[Edited on 5/1/2006 10:30 PM]
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May 1, 2006 @ 10:28 PM Sex on the first date?    
sjpinatl


Posts: 671
No. And not because I'm playing a game with the guy or trying for a 3 date or whatever rule. Because I want to feel more of a connection with someone and that takes more time. And you have to ask them if they have any diseases...And you have to talk about birth control. I know, not fun stuff. But I play responsibly. And our society would not be in as much turmoil if others played safe too, BTW.
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May 1, 2006 @ 10:36 PM Sex on the first date?    
AngelLight


Posts: 5,464
NO

And Pete, I don't mean maybe
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:08 PM Sex on the first date?    
uncrazy


Posts: 1,528
Just for me now, I've found that having sex before getting to know each other well, will hide a later to be found deal breaker.
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:10 PM Sex on the first date?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 10,902
Sex on the first date? SURE!!!!!!

Let's see...on the first date (and on each succeeding date, just in case the point should come up again) - I will be the male sex....my date will be the female sex....

Fair enough?
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:11 PM Sex on the first date?    
luvshorses644


Posts: 1,566
Absolutely not! Cannot say I have not been tempted.. but that sort of relationship is not what I am looking for.
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:17 PM Sex on the first date?    
Loreli


Posts: 20,311
No-
and if a guy tries that hard to have sex on the first date, it's real likely he doesn't want anything more out of that woman than just that anyway.
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:27 PM Sex on the first date?    
nah12


Posts: 3,973
well i'm taking notes and i'm not gonna ask any of you for a date now......
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:36 PM Sex on the first date?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990



Hey, listen Painter, about the other night


shhhhhh It was not a first date anyways......
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May 1, 2006 @ 11:48 PM Sex on the first date?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 10,902
Just for me now, I've found that having sex before getting to know each other well, will hide a later to be found deal breaker.

uncrazy - excellent point. I think having sex too early in a relationship is very detrimental to the relationship. I think it makes both take their eyes off the budding relationship because they tend to be preoccupied with other thoughts and desires, other than simply wanting to get to know each other better.
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