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| May 7, 2006 @ 6:21 PM |
Ever been or had an F* buddy?
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LanceVarden
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I guess the deifinitation of a F* buddy is a friend that you sleep with regularly, but have no romantic ties with.
I have never had one . 
My guess is that they don't really exist.
What I mean is...
I have noticed that men seem to be able to easily seperate love and sex, in that, they are more then happy to have sex with someone they don't love, and can love someone they don't have sex with.
It seems like that is not the same for women (ladies line me out here if I am in left field). It seems like, a woman will not want to have sex unless she is on love, and if she has sex with the same guy for a while, she will fall in love.
I am thinking that, if a woman consents to the "F* buddy" role, more then likely, she is actually enamored and hopes that affair will turn into an emotional attachement.
That is just a wild guess on my part.
So, if you have had some experience in this, give us some insight. Have you had one/beenone? How did it work out? How long did it last? How did it come to an end?
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| May 7, 2006 @ 6:57 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 20,311
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I would like to believe the things that were told to me when I was in "relationships" where sex was involved (and, I think I can!) so I have never "been" one.
I would personally never choose to have one because my feelings have to run pretty deep to have sex with a man. I do think it is somewhat common-I know people of both genders that that is all they want out of certain people in their lives. I guess if it's mutually agreed upon, everything is up front, it's just the way things are turning with so much independence nowdays.
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| May 7, 2006 @ 7:05 PM |
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Atone74
Posts: 335
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I have two actually. They both have been my friend for many years.. Friday night was awesome.. These two girls are friends also and know about the other one and myself. So these two chicks got freaky with each other before I knew it.. It was wild.. It was great sex.. I'm still a little sore.. They tore me up 
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| May 7, 2006 @ 7:35 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 15,342
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So these two chicks got freaky with each other before I knew it.. It was wild.. It was great sex.. I'm still a little sore.. They tore me up
Yeehaw..!!!!! Sounds like it was a wild ride indeed!! 
For myself, I've only been 'in love' once, so I'm not sure what to call my 'friends', other than friends...which I guess would make them f* buddies. I do however, love those friends, I'm just not 'in love' with them, nor they with me. And I do think they love, or have loved, me as well. It sounds as if there have been a number of them, probably not as many as you'd think given the number of years involved, and not concurrently either...I'm only serially polyandrous, but I'm seriously a Polyanna. I still keep hoping...
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| May 7, 2006 @ 8:47 PM |
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chauntra
Posts: 304
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I had one but after about 1 year of it we got married lol, then it all went downhill. I generally am not the type to have one, I tend to make an emotional connection with that person, not just a physical one.
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| May 7, 2006 @ 9:06 PM |
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adc85
Posts: 8
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Not really. Didn't sleep with them regularly, but no romantic ties.
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| May 7, 2006 @ 9:09 PM |
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babyfairy
Posts: 141
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I have had a few in the past. F**k buddies or "Friends With Benefits" if you will... and don't regret it. Friends that we both had a physical attraction and a "want" to have sex but had no emotional or romantic attachments to each other. No, I did not enter these... relationships... because I was enamored with the person and hoping to turn it into a full blown partnership. I realize some people may do that, but using sex in order to make the person fall for you too? If someone loves you JUST for the sex, it is a doomed relationship from the beginning.
My guys were already and for the most part still are Friends. We are great as friends and we were great as lovers. 
As for men being able to separate sex and love.... that's fine. But if you are going to talk about women & men and whether or not they can separate sex and love... then you also need to talk about the difference between sex and making love. A f**k buddy is just that.... f**king..... sex alone is not going to make me fall in love. If men can always separate sex and love, somebody needs to go back about ...... 8 years and 2 weeks... and explain that to one of my former f**k buddies who told me he was convinced he loved me cause the sex was good.
Sorry you've never had one Lance....maybe you'll have your chance. BTW, you can never make a guess about a woman, baby. 99% of the time it will be wrong. You gotta accept us as we are.... sexy booties and crazy as hell.
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| May 7, 2006 @ 9:22 PM |
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HARDNTX
Posts: 125
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I've had two f**kbuddies. One was the secretary of a Gen. Contractor my company bid with. We had a arrangement were if I had a date and I didn't want any or I couldn't get any I would call her and if she was alone I would go over and we would f**k our brains out ant I would leave....she would do the same, this lasted for 1-2 yrs. And the other I met online and she lived 18 miles from me. Every other Sat. nite she would come over...we would have a drink and then we would undress and do each other...it was kinda of a shame though...she was probably the best at oral sex that I have ever had and she was quite good in bed...however she was not attractive AT ALL. We never met for drinks and we never had a date....she would come over and stay for 1-2 hrs and then she would leave...this lasted for about 18 mos.
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| May 7, 2006 @ 9:25 PM |
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soul_decisions
Posts: 872
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I have had 2.......we weren't looking for a serious relationship with one another but the sex between us was great.......it ended because we wanted to devote our attentions on finding more meaningful relationships
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| May 8, 2006 @ 1:06 AM |
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HarleysB_WV
Posts: 860
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I have a F***ing friend!!! Actually I have two of them. Both live out of state but fortunately not too far away. One guy I have been "friends" with for just over 6 years. The other one just over 4 years. I talk to them both on the phone often and we openly discuss everything. I don't wish for a permanent relationship from either of these men and have told them that. We like our arrangements just the way they are and thus far have no plans on changing them. If one or both (or myself) should decide to end the "benefits" part of our relationships, there would be no hard feelings. I love them both dearly but I am not "IN LOVE" with either. Even though I don't want a lifetime partner at this time in my life, there are still some things that need "taken care of". 
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| May 8, 2006 @ 1:49 AM |
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Earl47
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I did at the age of like 15 to 20, but i wouldn't mess with married women, and i never played games!! There were 3 regulars and they all knew each other and didn't care. Some of them would ask me for sex, and i would just say sure if i wanted to. And the other two i met in High School, they really turned me on because they had full bottoms!!! So i went to my sister cheryl for advice, and just asked her, how to get them to have sex, her answer was "Just tell them they look great, and simply ask them". But unlike other HS guys, i wouldn't ever go around telling others, but the girls would always share talking about the guys they did things with, but unlike the boys, the girls would keep it secret amongst themselves. And i did just simply ask those two girls that caught my eye, and their responce was sure, okay, Dude. That was the lingo used back then. But you must take into account, i was just a boy back then, and not a mature adult, now i get more out of looking into a womans eyes, and learning about what she does for hobbies, how she grew up, and things sort of like i talk about in here., i wish you folks would watch the movie Harper Valley PTA sometimes with Barbara Eden in it, wow!!! Now that figure type and how she was then, i need ice to cool down!!!.......Earl
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| May 8, 2006 @ 2:15 AM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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Never had a f*** buddy since I was about 18 or 19. I had an offer about 5 or 6 months ago, and she certainly wasn't enamoured with me because we'd only met the once, but it's really not what I need or am looking for in my life..
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| May 8, 2006 @ 2:31 AM |
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painter007
Posts: 15,990
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Nope and never will...............I take the whole getting physical too personal and intimate. I just feel when I give myself to someone its a gift to them.
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| May 8, 2006 @ 3:14 AM |
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Greystone1
Posts: 1,677
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I'm not sure if this qualifies or not:
Before I was married, which was a very long time ago, I had 3 girlfriends. Whenever I lost one I found a replacement. It just seemed like the ideal number at the time. I did that for several years. There was never anything like a F* buddy agreement between us, and they may have been a little more serious than I was.
Then my ex entered the picture, and I dropped the other two. Mutual chemistry makes everything soooooo much better.
Now I want the chemistry.
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| May 8, 2006 @ 12:51 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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yes -- in the past.
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| May 9, 2006 @ 1:13 AM |
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willsmalto
Posts: 3,631
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yeah I had a f*** buddy when I was in a platonic relationship with one woman until I got tired of it.
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| May 9, 2006 @ 2:59 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,251
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Ever been or had an F* buddy?
Yup. 
...on second thought, it's been more like "FWB" -- Friends with benefits. (don't think I could "do" unless there was at least some friendly feelings...)
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| May 9, 2006 @ 11:41 AM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Yes I have had F* buddies. Still do sorta.
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| May 10, 2006 @ 3:37 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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F* buddies (FWB) absolutely. Have been doing it for over 20 years, until or unless Ms.100% correct comes along.......the F'sWB will happily continue. 
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| May 10, 2006 @ 5:58 PM |
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Mark2Pound
Posts: 67
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If I'm not married to her & I don't dislike her & we have sex, then she is in some sense a f*** buddy. F** Buddy is sort of a disparaging term. As if you meet for sex and then say goodbye.. like you're going to the doctor's office or something. I've never had that sorta realtionship. I have slept with friends who I don't see as steady girlfriend or marriage material for any number of reasons. The only real difference between that sorta relationship and the steady girlfriend is where its going. Sometimes you don't know at the time. All these sorta relationships might vary slightly between different poles but they're all on the same continuum. My principle is to be kind to each other.. and if we're gonna F** then at least let's enjoy ourselves.
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