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May 11, 2006 @ 12:47 PM Was I Good?    
silknpearls


Posts: 1,820
Ladies, how tired are you of men asking you if they were good? I mean, I feel like I was supposed to keep a score card by the bed and make tick marks or something when they ask me that.

Or, how about the endless questions about your orgasms - did you cum, how many times did you cum, how often do you normally cum? All amounts to the same thing.

It totally turns me off - like a light switch!
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May 11, 2006 @ 12:49 PM Was I Good?    
RachelVaz


Posts: 1,088
Girl- I totally agree!!! It is nice that the guys cares and stuff - but sometimes it feels like the third degree.... or a test to see if you were faking it... which I never do.... If the guy was good - won't we let him know???
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May 11, 2006 @ 12:55 PM Was I Good?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
If the guy doesn't know whether or not the woman enjoyed herself, then it is probable that he was crap! I've certainly never asked a woman if I was any good, and never will do! Do a lot of guys really ask this?
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May 11, 2006 @ 1:08 PM Was I Good?    
lacyvsq


Posts: 4,306
I honestly can't remember ever being asked. Wonder if that comes from really confident guys, or just uncaring ones. Hmmmmmm
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May 11, 2006 @ 1:13 PM Was I Good?    
MotownManiax


Posts: 7,881
Too much talk ruins things, silk....that's why I prefer the silent approach.
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May 11, 2006 @ 1:18 PM Was I Good?    
silknpearls


Posts: 1,820
If the guy was good - won't we let him know???

Well, I am wondering if it is because you tell him it was good - are they looking for additional compliments?

Do a lot of guys really ask this?


Can only speak from personal experience - yes - and once you answer one question, there are 50 more. It becomes a chore! Trying to reassure him.

Too much talk ruins things, silk....that's why I prefer the silent approach.


I do not mind talking - just not this quizzing thing! I mean, if it was good, wouldn't you think you would know? And if it was bad, do you really want to know?
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May 11, 2006 @ 1:28 PM Was I Good?    
jim9562


Posts: 620
i was going to ask once,,,but i fell asleep
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May 11, 2006 @ 3:00 PM Was I Good?    
SylvanDreams


Posts: 2,133
I don't think I have ever been asked.

Probably because I tell him how great it was without being asked....and I have never had a bad experience. And I am not lying, either!

[Jim, shame on you! ]

[Edited on 5
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May 11, 2006 @ 3:03 PM Was I Good?    
mangolover60


Posts: 635
i was going to ask once, but SHE fell asleep.
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May 11, 2006 @ 3:05 PM Was I Good?    
SylvanDreams


Posts: 2,133
But that is good, Mango, because she was obviously happily satisfied....
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May 11, 2006 @ 4:37 PM Was I Good?    
painter007


Posts: 15,990
when Im with someone they never ask me if it was good....All they keep mumbling is Oh my God where did you learn that.....Oh my God I cant believe what you did to me......
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May 11, 2006 @ 4:57 PM Was I Good?    
SylvanDreams


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You go, Painter!!!!
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May 11, 2006 @ 5:31 PM Was I Good?    
garymiko


Posts: 882
I've never asked, or been asked. I think both people should know if it was pleasing to their partner without having to ask. Maybe I'm just naive.
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May 11, 2006 @ 5:36 PM Was I Good?    
mailorderannie


Posts: 5,923
Maybe I'm just naive.


No Gary, I think that's experienced.
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May 11, 2006 @ 5:54 PM Was I Good?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 10,902
I would have to agree wholeheartedly with China and Gary - I've never asked, never intend to - and if ya gotta ask, either there's a tremendous amount of doubt in your mind caused by feelings of inadequacy, whether warranted or not - or you just weren't paying attention. Either way, it's kinda like going to that restaurant where there are no prices on the menu - if ya gotta ask, ya prolly shouldn't be there!
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May 11, 2006 @ 6:17 PM Was I Good?    
Michael2972


Posts: 189
Either way, it's kinda like going to that restaurant where there are no prices on the menu - if ya gotta ask, ya prolly shouldn't be there!


^^^^^^ What he said.
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May 11, 2006 @ 9:11 PM Was I Good?    
walkingman


Posts: 639
I could never imagine saying that to a lady. That seem's a bit egotistical to me. I think you just enjoy the time and not discuss it.
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May 11, 2006 @ 9:39 PM Was I Good?    
dowens


Posts: 869
OK!..........Silk, i was one of those "how was I?"............"Damn,.....was i the first guy to make you orgasm like that?"..... .....To tell you the truth, I'm not sure if it was because of my own insecurities or because thats what i heard in the first porno I ever saw!.....

But, anyways, i was a quick study and learned that if you NEED to ask those questions?!?!......well, i think you already know the answer!
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May 11, 2006 @ 9:48 PM Was I Good?    
mangolover60


Posts: 635
Gak, I ask all the time!

"Do you like this? Hmm, How 'bout when I do this ? Now, how about when I do that ? Does it feel good when I ...... . Then we and then we .
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May 11, 2006 @ 9:50 PM Was I Good?    
luvshorses644


Posts: 1,566
Lordy.. I would think the "OMG, OMG, OMG" phrase and the deep panting and sweating things were universally understood.. you mean they aren't?????

OK... then how about we keep little gold stars on the night stand and when we catch our breaths, reach over, slap one on his behind, and say.. "that's what I'm talking about... schmmoookkkkking....."
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