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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 5:04 PM |
Do men provide a mere sexual service?
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scarletsara
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What can we get from the emotionally,
that we can't get from our girlfreinds 
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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chinabull2000
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It all depends on your choice of man, just as it depends on your choice of girlfriends. Every person has different qualities to offer in a relationship and/or friendship, so I would say that this question could never be answered in such a general manner.
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 7:24 PM |
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definitelydi
Posts: 12,602
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Like...NO! They lift heavy things! Duh! 
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 7:28 PM |
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AngelLight
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No. Men provide love, affection, tenderness, humour, comfort, companionship, protection etc. in a way that is distinctly male.
Yes, we can get these things from our female friends, but receiving this from a woman can be very different than experiencing this sharing by way of a male......
Female to female energy and female to male energy, while they may overlap, are different......The energy that arises in the differences is what makes both types of relationships important, unique and for some, necessary.
"Femaleness" and "Maleness".....thank God for the similarities and the differences.
Sometimes the differences can make both genders crazy  but it's worth the risk for many 
Di, sometimes you are a real scream 
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 7:32 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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"Femaleness" and "Maleness".....thank God for the similarities and the differences
Amen sistah!! 
Vive le difference! Both are great, but yes, there's a distinct difference, even on a purely 'friends' level. When I'm really, really worried about something, I'd rather tell one of my guy pals, who'll realize that I don't really want too much sympathy (that would only make me worry more!). Maybe I just have some very perceptive guy pals though.
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 7:54 PM |
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scarletsara
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Any women that have experienced the comfort and support mentioned here
are lucky. I must be doing everything wrong, all I am finding are the
service  attendents
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| Jun 21, 2006 @ 11:09 PM |
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MotownManiax
Posts: 9,737
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 I know, it's a dirty, thankless job, but somebody's gotta do it....
....and do it...over and over again (practice makes perfect, they say  )
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 8:02 AM |
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Greystone1
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Any women that have experienced the comfort and support mentioned here are lucky. I must be doing everything wrong, all I am finding are the service attendents.
Are you bragging or complaining?
What is it that you are wanting from men beyond sexual service?
What is it that you are offering men beyond sexual service?
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 9:25 AM |
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Halfevl333
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Well, as a Bi woman I am friends with says, "A woman for sex, and a man for everything else". LOL
She says sex is much better with a woman since they know what feels good to them. Men for hanging out and being friends with... best of both worlds LOL
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 9:33 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Any women that have experienced the comfort and support mentioned here are lucky.
Definitely agreed...but I think it might be less what you're offering than what you're expecting. Try looking at it from the other side, and this is just an example...if a man thinks that all you're looking for is a meal ticket and not a partner, do you think you wouldn't resent that and possibly act that way just because you're resentful? I kind of usually assume that men are interested in sex (hopefully anyway!!) but don't assume that's all they're interested in...if you're giving the impression that's what you think, it's probably what you'll get. If you try to assume that they're looking for what you are (and I mean try), and risk being wrong, you may both find what you're looking for. Communication, honesty and courage can go a long way...and if you don't really have the courage, maybe you can fake it till you make it.
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 9:59 AM |
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MotownManiax
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I always thought women have the greatest support group in the world -- other women. You gals can do practically everything together without a hint of self-consciousness or feeling uncomfortable and awkward...I mean, shopping, vacations, dancing...lol. Heck, you don't even need men for sex as long as you have the proper toys?
As for the opposite gender? 
I don't think I could even count on one hand how many men I'd could stand hanging out with for just 20 minutes?
Single Men lead a much lonelier existence. 
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 12:20 PM |
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definitelydi
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You have a good point here, Mo. I just can't imagine two guys going shopping and sharing a dressing room! 
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 12:42 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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What!
You mean they can actually do other things
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 1:38 PM |
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MotownManiax
Posts: 9,737
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Hey, watch it, Zula 
I'm typing and breathing...that's two things, right? 
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 1:51 PM |
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zulamaze
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And I bet you are chewing gum too. Woo hoo
Sorry Mo -- I just couldn't help it.
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 4:21 PM |
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lj450
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Theres nothing mere about it......but yes, males have somehow defaulted into the "servant" role.
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 4:43 PM |
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spongebob777
Posts: 7,904
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I'm just a horn-bot. Program me, wind me up, and watch me go.
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 4:52 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I'm just a horn-bot. Program me, wind me up, and watch me go.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 3:07 AM |
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SensualGemini
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Do men provide a mere sexual service? What can we get from the emotionally, that we can't get from our girlfreinds
...A commodity that has been around since the beginning; like her, he can find sex anyplace. If an individual perceives it as simply a sexual service, then the servicing party will not be around for long...except for maybe the booty call.
...Being best friends is imperative to a sustainable commitment that includes the total intimacy of the relationship. Whereas, sex becomes making love and if both are fortunate, then develops into a spiritual connection of forever plus one day.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 3:52 AM |
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lacyvsq
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Being best friends is imperative to a sustainable commitment that includes the total intimacy of the relationship. Whereas, sex becomes making love and if both are fortunate, then develops into a spiritual connection of forever plus one day.
...Being best friends is imperative to a sustainable commitment that includes the total intimacy of the relationship, wherein sex becomes making love and if both work at the relationship, it then develops into a spiritual connection of forever plus one day.
I liked what you had to say with a few minor changes...hope you don't mind.
Men so fear that being placed into that friends catagory means they will never experience that total intimacy, when in fact having a slumber party with a best friend and lying together wrapped like pretzels as you share joys, fears, disappointments, victories -- that goes way beyond sexual service or emotional support from a friend -- that's intercourse -- that's making love -- that makes everything else just gravy...
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