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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 5:04 PM |
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guiltless
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I was involved in a frank sexual discussion the other night, and it led to a question I thought it might be fun to ask this diverse group.
The conversation centered on the sexual experiences that we (those involved in the discussion) had during our lifetimes.
At one point I was asked where did my wife rate on this scale of 1-10. I had to be honest (else the questions/Answers are frivlious) and reply that she was probably a solid 7. I was then asked if I had ever met a 10. Why yes I had, and finally the question I would ask you all:
Where would you rate yourself?
Now before you go and start typing that you would rate a 12 or 1500 or 2000 on a scale of 1-10, be honest.
Are you more interested in the pleasures you bring for your mate, or in seeking your own pleasures?
Are you open minded, to new experiences, or do you have a finite set of skills?
Are you open with your partner and ASK for certain pleasures, or better ask them what they secretly desire?
Well I could go on, but hopefully you get the idea.
So Ladies? How do you feel that you are as a lover?
Gentlemen, setting aside the macho for a moment, how would you rate yourself?
Can any of you honestly say you KNOW it all, have Done it all and are the absolute best at sex?
Ok, Go!
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 5:46 PM |
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luvshorses644
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The weird part about all of this is that I had a discussion about sexual evaulations with my last SO. Seems he critiqued all his partners and openly discussed his evaluations with them.
Myself, I am not into rating. I can tell my partner when I am with them in the privacy of our lovemaking, exactly how much pleasure he is bringing to me (heck the moans, the rolling of my eyes to the back of my head, and the quivering should be an indicator at first), and what feels good.. where to touch, how to touch, and would be more than willing to tell him if his lovemaking made me feel better than anyone ever had. But to actually put a number on the act, I would be very hard pressed.
I believe in giving as much pleasure as I receive and have openly discussed different desires or fantasies that we could actually play out and have followed through with them because the discussion is what actually brought the act into fruition. That sexy overtone of being able to discuss anything and everything that each of us would desire, would dream about doing, would want done to each of us, makes the heat that already exists upped by 10s of degrees and starts the desire to live it out.
Is it necessary to put numbers on this type of experience? I would think that the sheer exhaustion, the SEGs on each of our faces, the delicious flavors that linger in our mouths, the wonderful scent of each other throughly soaked with each other, would be more than enough of a measurement of how "we stack up with each other".
And if all else fails, and the question needs to be asked, I reach over to the nightstand, take one of the shiney stars I keep there, jest in case there is a question, slap it on his fine behind and say..."yep, that's what I'm talking about.. schhmmmookkkkiin.....BABY!"
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 8:04 PM |
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EvoPsych
Posts: 288
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Its not an athletic competition, that reqires judges sitting at a table holding up numbered cards.
I refuse to play the numbers game.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 9:02 PM |
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spongebob777
Posts: 7,904
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I don't stack too well, after I get about 3 tiers high I start falling off.
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| Jun 23, 2006 @ 9:07 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
Posts: 13,699
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don't stack too well, after I get about 3 tiers high I start falling off.
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 11:16 AM |
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AngelLight
Posts: 5,440
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Luv 
All I can say is I know how to Love and be Loved.
Rating?.....the Love speaks for itself.
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 12:13 PM |
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mogrl1000
Posts: 258
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I had to think about this for a few min .I honestly think that it depends on who i am with and if my heart is into it or not.I have been with men that desreve a 10 +.But i would glady trade them in for a good solid 8 if they actually manage to get my heart involved as well.As for myslef i can be a good solid 8 or an exploding 15,depends on who lights the fuse.
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 1:03 PM |
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Halfevl333
Posts: 187
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Unfortunately, I would probably be rated average or just below average. Mainly because I have never gotten the chance to really work on my skills. Most relationships I have been in, sex has been majorly lacking.
I would love to find a woman who is part Nympho and who wants sex as much as I do. Then I might be able to improve my skills and rating LOL...
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 1:45 PM |
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Greystone1
Posts: 1,677
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Sex involves two people. How each stacks up depends primarily upon the chemistry between them. Technique is just technique. Great sex is a combination of skills and inspiration, with mutual chemistry being the major component.
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 7:15 PM |
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lacyvsq
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Sometime between their fortieth year of marriage and their fiftieth, my parents were the only couple among a mixed group of people who iked together outside Phoenix. The discussion one day centered around the question of whether any would marry their current spouse if they had it to do over. My parents were the only ones who said yes. Of course the others claimed that they could not be honest because they were there together. -- but they were there together with more than forty years of marriage because they stacked up with another in all the ways that counted.
I envy the relationship my parents had and others like them. I'd much rather have a man who still wanted me after more than forty years than 100 sexual 10s. If we had that much time with one another and that much devotion, I'd like to think our average would be on a continuous rise and that we might offer one another a generous amount of good times so that we always rated tops with each other.
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| Jun 24, 2006 @ 8:30 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Never really thought about it... guess I do ok since I have never had any complaints over the years... it's more about connection and chemistry then what number I am... for me anyway.
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 9:00 AM |
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Scooterkist
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And if all else fails, and the question needs to be asked, I reach over to the nightstand, take one of the shiney stars I keep there, jest in case there is a question, slap it on his fine behind and say..."yep, that's what I'm talking about.. schhmmmookkkkiin.....BABY!"
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 10:02 AM |
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Graystar
Posts: 282
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“Rockin’ good time” has been said and poetry written, but I just don’t know how to rate that.
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 12:20 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 7,744
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Oh Im a 10+ for sure 
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 1:07 PM |
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carolina_girl
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OYE! Well, how do I say this? I guess the most proper way is that I have an oral fettish. It drives me absolutely wild and can do it for hours. As far as that goes, I know that I am a 10 and I am not trying to boast.  I just find more pleasure in giving than receiving. Weird, huh?
As far as the rest, I would probably give myself an .....hmmmmmm...... 8?
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 1:18 PM |
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Graystar
Posts: 282
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So when are you moving to New York?
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| Jun 26, 2006 @ 1:50 PM |
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guiltless
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Well I do appreciate the feedback, and many make a good point involving the chemistry between the sexes involved. This wasn't meant to play up or down on your individual skills, rather to ask a qeastion that requieres introspection and thought.
Am I truly tuned in to the needs of my partner?
What could I do to further this experience and make it memorable for us both?
I think once you begin to think outside your own needs and desires your probably improving your skills not only for yourself, but because you do connect better, with your lover, the entire relationship benifits.
BTW I have to say that I have found the best humor amoung this group. Some of you really have a knack for comedy. Its good to remember not to take life so damn seriously all the time, and simply enjoy.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 12:04 PM |
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Firefaerie
Posts: 233
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How do I ' stack up ' ??
This is not a " Pancake Eating Contest "
I am not playing with " Legos "
Everybody is always trying to - out love - everybody else.
That would make a pretty good Tv show.
" Love Warriors "
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 8:35 PM |
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everrett
Posts: 448
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Just about every woman I have slept with has needed different things. Some wanted it fast and hard, others wanted slow deep grinding, and others what me to stay deep and rock from different positions. Being a good lover is about listening to your partner.
Even if you are a perfect listener there are other things that are harder to control that make someone a perfect lover for you. Size, stamina and overall lebido often play big roles. One persons 10 could be another persons disaster.
Depending on my partner I think have ranged from 7 to 9. Still looking for my 10.
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| Jul 3, 2006 @ 4:55 PM |
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guiltless
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I have to admit that having found my 10 was unbelieveable. She was absolutely AWSOME. I still get shivers thinking about her.
Once you make that sort of connection, the rest of the world just doesn't seem as bright or colors as vivid.
Damn there goes that shiver again.
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