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bevrice
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Okay, here is your chance. Everytime someone is rude and unkind to you on this forum, this is your chance to name them and post what they said, lol.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 6:56 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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What is the point Bev? will it change anything? 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:29 PM |
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bevrice
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Maybe, it will make people think before they say anything unkind. I would hope that it would. Maybe people will learn to apologize for being rude. Very few in here do.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 10:51 PM |
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steveemac
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For myself, if someone behaves toward me in a way I find objectionable, I will tell them in the thread where they offended me-if I say anything at all-I certainly won't go to some "clearing house of meanies" thread.
"Beware lest ye contend with any one, nay, strive to make him aware of the truth with kindly manner and most convincing exhortation. If your hearer respond, he will have responded to his own behoof, and if not, turn ye away from him, and set your faces towards God’s sacred Court, the seat of resplendent holiness.
Dispute not with any one concerning the things of this world and its affairs, for God hath abandoned them to such as have set their affection upon them."
--“Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh”, section CXXVIII [58]
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 10:52 PM |
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SHYBLONDE48
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Lol well I think the MOD will probably lock this before it even gets started
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 11:35 PM |
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Jankia
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As you well know bevrice I could post a few names on here myself but its allready been proven it gets nowhere and that behaving like they do only lowers yourself to the first grade level like themselves. 
But I will bring up Annie_Girl.She made a nice comment in Brendas cheesehead thread about us but she didnt  me like she usually did in the past.
Talk about rude and unkind. 
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 1:14 AM |
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bevrice
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Well, you could get it off your chest in this thread and maybe work it out here instead of in another thread. You are right, blonde, they prob will lock it down, but that is okay, too. I can understand that.
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 1:28 AM |
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SunBabe
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What's this? A tattletale thread? 
Cripes,  I'm lmao at the absudity
What's next?
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
I was rude and unkind to __________
...written on the chalkboard 100 times. In Palmer Cursive. 
 
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 1:31 AM |
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bevrice
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and what would that hurt to admit that one, sun?
We should do that all the time and apologize.
Christians do that in their prayers all the time. It is called having a conscience, feeling remorse. Only psychopaths and sociopaths don't regret things they have done and said.
It might make people see the decent side of some of the people in here.
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 3:13 AM |
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carpediem48
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Sunbabe 
Ooooops
I was rude and unkind to Sunbabe
I was rude and unkind to Sunbabe
I was rude and unkind to Sunbabe
Bev
I still don't feel better,  ,,still feel guilty  ,,,,how many times do I h ave to say it before the good feelings kick in?????
I know, , I know,,,,could you ask Sunbabe to ,,,,, post here and
tell me she forgives me,,,,?
[Edited on 11/26/2007 3:24 AM]
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 3:24 AM |
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bevrice
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Lol, I know her better than that, you might as well ask GW Jr to do the same.
Besides that, she doesn't like me, so I am not a good interceder for you. 
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 3:27 AM |
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carpediem48
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Now Bev,,,,was ya bein 'rude and unkind' up there^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^  ???
Sunny would so forgive me,,,so there
Oooooooops
Oh no,,,,,not again 
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 3:29 AM |
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carpediem48
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Think positive Bev,,,,don't give Sunny ideas,,,,
If Sunny didn't like you she would ignore you,,,,
Ooooops
I will not double post 
I will not double post
I will not double post
Bev will ya forgive me?
It's not as if this was a blog or sumthin where it's ok to double,triple dipple post
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 5:59 AM |
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bevrice
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Lol, she just tells me off.
I have to say I forgive a lot of times before it works sometimes.
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 6:10 AM |
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carpediem48
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Bev I don't understand,,,,"I forgive a lot of times before it works"
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 6:18 AM |
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bevrice
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The Bible says we are only forgiven as we forgive. Sometimes it is hard to forgive, and I have to say, "I forgive" five or six times before it begins to work and really be so.
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 6:29 AM |
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carpediem48
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Ok,,,,,,,gotcha
that's maybe kinda like,,,,'fake it until you make it'
I can relate to that,,,,only sometimes I may have to forgive 'myself' when I find it difficult to forgive........
God knows our true 'intent' even if we have challenges with implementing it
I suppose that's where 'Let Go and Let God' comes in,,,,another thing that's sometimes hard to implement{{{{sometimes}}}}
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 6:33 AM |
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bevrice
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That is one of the hardest things of all to do, at least for me.
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 6:41 AM |
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carpediem48
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The letting go part???
I know,,,tis for me too but,,,,there's hope,,,
I am reading Muriel Beatty's devotional,,,,'The Language of Letting Go"
It's starting to work,,,along with meetings
I've missed the last 3 meetings
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| Nov 26, 2007 @ 8:07 AM |
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bevrice
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It just takes reminding ourselves or listening to the Holy Spirit when He says to let it go, but it is soooooo hard to do, sometimes.
That sounds like a wonderful study.
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