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Aug 22 @ 10:40 AM How To Treat Others    
Blondino


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as per your request Hammer

Baha’i Faith
Lay not on any soul a load that you would not wish to be laid upon you, and desire not for anyone the things you would not desire for yourself.
- Baha’u’llah, Gleanings

Buddhism
Treat not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.
- The Buddha, Udana-Varga 5.18

Christianity
In everything, do unto others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets.
- Jesus, Matthew 7:12 (NRSV)

Confucianism
One word which sums up the basis of all good conduct…loving-kindness. Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself.
- Confucias, Analects 15.23

Hinduism
This is the sum of duty: do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you.
- Mahabharata 5:1517

Islam
Not one of you truly believes until you wish for others what you wish for yourself.
- The Prophet Muhammad, Hadith

Jainism
One should treat all creatures in the world as one would like to be treated.
- Mahavira, Sutrakritanga 1.11.33

Judaism
What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbour. This is the whole Torah; all the rest is commentary. Go and learn it.
- Hillel, Talmud, Shabbath 31A

Sikhism
I am a stranger to no one; and no one is a stranger to me. Indeed, I am a friend to all.
- Guru Granth Sahib, p.1299

Taoism
Regard your neighbor’s gain as your own gain and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.
- Lao Tzu, T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien, 213-218

Unitarianism
We affirm and promote respect for the independent web of all existence of which we are a part.
- Unitarian Principle

Yoruban Indigenous Tradition
One going to take a pointed stick to pinch a baby bird should first try it on himself to feel how it hurts.
- Yoruban Proverb

Zoroastrianism
Do not do unto others whatever is injurious to yourself.
- Shayast-na-Shayast 13.29


well those are the aims ...... are we living up to them ??


[Edited on 8/22/2008 10:46 AM]
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Aug 22 @ 10:54 AM How To Treat Others    
Loreli


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No, unfortunately we are not.
We need to be more accepting of other people's differences and faiths.
Thank you for this posting, Blondino.
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Aug 22 @ 10:56 AM How To Treat Others    
hammertime


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Thanks Blondino.
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Aug 23 @ 1:34 AM How To Treat Others    
Angel54214


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Ancient Egypt
"Do for one who may do for you, that you may cause him thus to do."
From "The Tale of the Eloquent Peasant" 1640 B.C.E.

Native American
"Respect for all life is the foundation." The Great Law of Peace.
"All things are our relatives; what we do to everything, we do to ourselves. All is really One." Black Elk

"Do not wrong or hate your neighbor. For it is not he who you wrong, but yourself." Pima

Roman Pagan
"The law imprinted on the hearts of all men is to love the members of society as themselves."

Shinto
"The heart of the person before you is a mirror. See there your own form"
"Be charitable to all beings, love is the representative of God." Ko-ji-ki Hachiman Kasuga

Wicca
"Harm no one, do what thou wilt"; do what ever you will, as long as it harms nobody, including yourself.


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Aug 23 @ 1:26 PM How To Treat Others    
16knots


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We should ALL treat others with respect!!!!









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Aug 25 @ 8:23 AM How To Treat Others    
Blondino


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Looks like we all agree ...

wonder why its just not happening then ,,,, is it because getting along is not so entertaining
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Aug 25 @ 8:24 AM How To Treat Others    
16knots


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Because its a debating Forum. A place where we dont have to agree.

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Aug 25 @ 10:25 AM How To Treat Others    
Kirkish


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Thank you for posting this, I found it very interesting to read.
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Aug 25 @ 11:52 AM How To Treat Others    
Loreli


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wonder why its just not happening then ,,,, is it because getting along is not so entertaining

to SOME
it's driving others away....they want to discuss, not fight and insult.
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Aug 25 @ 1:22 PM How To Treat Others    
Thor1960303


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wonder why its just not happening then ,,,, is it because getting along is not so entertaining

In part. The other is the dogmatic reactions by some of those who are indoctrinated in fundamentalist dogma. Such folk would not like your post as to them it would encourage peace and compromise with people who worship demons in their eyes.
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Aug 29 @ 4:09 PM How To Treat Others    
Loreli


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Bring it on............I'm ready for learning interaction!
There are people that do like to argue or push their point.
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Aug 29 @ 5:02 PM How To Treat Others    
Aeromuse


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I'd LOVE to engage in some learning interaction!

We have this wonderful opportunity to do so here, and we're squandering it with endless bickerling and name-calling. It's a damn shame.

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Aug 30 @ 4:40 AM How To Treat Others    
Blondino


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Buddhism
Putting oneself in the place of another,
one should not kill nor cause another to kill.

One who, while himself seeking happiness, oppresses with violence other
beings who also desire happiness, will not attain happiness hereafter

In addition, the Dalai Lama has stated:

If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.


Baha'i Faith

From the sacred scriptures of the Baha'i Faith:

"Ascribe not to any soul that which thou wouldst not have ascribed to thee, and say not that which thou doest not." Baha'u'llah.
"Blessed is he who preferreth his brother before himself." Baha'u'llah;
And if thine eyes be turned towards justice, choose thou for thy neighbour that which thou choosest for thyself." Baha'u'llah

Ancient Greek philosophy


The Golden Rule was a common principle in ancient Greek philosophy. A few examples:

"Do not to your neighbor what you would take ill from him." (Pittacus)
"Avoid doing what you would blame others for doing." (Thales)
"What you wish your neighbors to be to you, such be also to them." (Sextus the Pythagorean)
"Do not do to others what would anger you if done to you by others." (Isocrates)
"What thou avoidest suffering thyself seek not to impose on others." (Epictetus)
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Aug 30 @ 7:34 AM How To Treat Others    
eastham


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And then there is the platinum rule: Treat others as they wish to be treated. While the Golden Rule says "do unto others as they do unto you," the platinum rule raises the bar and requires you to be more thoughtful. For example, if you don't feel it necessary to celebrate your birthday, but your partner loves a surprise party, under the Golden Rule, no party, but under the platinum rule, party.
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Aug 30 @ 7:47 AM How To Treat Others    
Heaveninawildflower


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East - I'd always heard the golden rule is to treat others as you'd wish to be treated, noit as they treat you...so party on!



(I have to admit that I'm a lot more like your golden rule than mine - in a perfect world that would be fine, but in the real one you have to have limits or you'll destroy yourself)
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Aug 30 @ 10:32 PM How To Treat Others    
Loreli


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If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion

I agree...
No matter what faith!
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Aug 30 @ 11:07 PM How To Treat Others    
Jankia


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The Eleventh Commandment
Jesus
John 13:34
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Aug 30 @ 11:37 PM How To Treat Others    
Angel54214


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John 14:
15 If ye love me, keep my commandments.

21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.

1John 4:
19 We love him, because he first loved us.

20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?

21 And this commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also.


1John 5:
1 Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God: and every one that loveth him that begat loveth him also that is begotten of him.

2 By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments.

3 For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.

2John:
5 And now I beseech thee, lady, not as though I wrote a new commandment unto thee, but that which we had from the beginning, that we love one another.

6 And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.

Mark 12:
29 And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:

30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.

31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
Compare with...
Deut. 6:
4 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD:

5 And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart.

Romans 13:
8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.


[Edited on 8/31/2008 12:09 AM]
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