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Sep 6 @ 5:57 PM Doing weddings and funerals    
Loreli


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How easy/hard would you find this to be to perform for a stranger?
A loved one?
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Sep 6 @ 7:52 PM Doing weddings and funerals    
Jankia


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I was a pall bearer in highschool for a stranger.I knew the family but never knew they even had the son that passed away.
I did it for the family and it wasnt hard to help a family through there grieving.
Funerals are more interesting to me than weddings. Every funeral Ive ever been in or at,I always learned something about the deceased that I never knew.
Including my fathers when an uncle spoke about the time my dad traded two Model T Fords for a horse.
At a neighbors funeral a few years ago that I ushered at I found out he had survived the landing at Normandy.Another neighbor found out something that shocked him as well.He and the deceased had both been neighbors for 30 years but neither ever knew they were both in the same battalion while fighting in France.
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Sep 7 @ 12:08 AM Doing weddings and funerals    
SunBabe


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My sister and I "do" good funerals...or so we were told.
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Sep 7 @ 6:28 AM Doing weddings and funerals    
mystery2u888


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It's too rough Loreli.... ........I do it all the time..... ....about every month......as most of you know I have lost many from 3 a month to once every month.......it is why I get so drained... .....it is why I try to keep smiling and be thankful for everything........and try my best to just be thankful for each moment.... it changes you.....and your outlook.........as of course we are getting older......but........as I said it is the hardest thing to go thru and the mourning process .........is a constant struggle.....during quiet times.......it's why I step back a few times.....for my inner peace to regroup..... .......of course each one is unique in it's own way..........the saddest one was my gf baby passed to sids......after 4 months.......open viewing....... but.............some how we manage........to stay strong for those that need us most.......


xoxo


Weddings are also just as stressful.............draining again and everything must be perfect.......you hope that is the one time.....the last time......for the perfect bride an groom to have..........no room .....for errors......people are counting on you and you need to be sure it's perfection for a lifetime of memories.......
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