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Sep 18 @ 7:43 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
ServantOfChrist2


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Is that the message the MatchDoctor folk want to be sending out here?
I thought MatchDoctor wanted to create something of a community here?
Is this best accomplished by instilling a big city mentality among all the patrons?

It is recommended that no one reveals anything personal about themselves, because we would like to instill a feeling of hostility.

Friendship is for morons. Individuals are recommended to keep all personal information to themselves.


Really??

That doesn't seem to be the MatchDoctor counsel elsewhere on this site.

Of course some of you good men + women would not know this. You spend all your time in this one forum. And yet a few of you talk like such big know-it-alls.

Such worldly men + women some of you are.

You make fun of jankia, yet the world of your opinions is limited to one "room" in an on-line singles community.

How sad is that?
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Sep 18 @ 8:31 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
iam01


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Sep 18 @ 9:02 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
Jankia


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Is that the message the MatchDoctor folk want to be sending out here?
Thats something I would think is rather hard to prevent over the internet SOC.They do alot in trying to keep people from using personal email addresses to ensure some measure of safety and do ask that noone use explicit, sexual, offensive, insulting or vulgar language and to treat others with respect.
They arent responsible for what someone does with your personal information but theyre also not responsible for disrespectfull children that cannot read but have profiles in an adult dating site.

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Sep 18 @ 9:03 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
uab_5


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IAM doesn't have a life, SOC!
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Sep 18 @ 10:05 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
BandTMom


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If you don't like it, QUIT FEEDING IT!!!

You know damn good and well that posts like these only add fuel to the fire.

You can point fingers at Ham all you want but it take TWO to tango.

This constant back and forth form BOTH sides has grown so old it stinks and all that's going to happen is all of you are going to get this forum shut down. Is that what you want?? Not only will you lose your source of entertainment, but you will hurt the ones who really enjoy this forum when it is used as it is supposed to be used.....to learn from one another and to get to know one another.
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Sep 18 @ 10:40 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
ServantOfChrist2


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BTM, you know perfectly well that it doesn't make one bit of difference what I post. It makes no difference in the world what I write about in my post, one certain, unnamed person is going to attack me in it.

This has been a sure-thing on almost every single post I've written in this forum for the past couple of years.

And I'm not the only one he attacks. Come on. Laced with bitter little barbs he insults lots of people.

Sometimes I try to stay away from the guy. I restrict my posts to other forums.

I never have trouble anywhere else. And when I stay out-of-here, he just picks on other people.

So don't try to compare me to him.

sl, jankia, bev, sealacamp...they'd rather tango than lie down like doormats too. And where are they?

So you would have me agree with everything your poor little h posts. Should I praise him too?

Get real. Take off the blinders BTM.

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Sep 18 @ 10:44 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
BandTMom


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I have no blinders on.

If all of you would quit responding to him, it would cease to be fun and he would stop. Yet day after day, it's the same back and forth crap.

What's so hard about ignore?? Don't read it. Don't respond to it. How hard is that?? It's both sides that keep it stirred up. If it wasn't fed, it would starve.
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Sep 18 @ 11:27 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
ServantOfChrist2


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And I apologize on the wording of my last post.
southernlass and jankia are still very much here.
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Sep 18 @ 11:35 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
Jankia


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. If it wasn't fed, it would starve.

Wrong
You probaly wont do it but look back and open your eyes BandTMom.
I say you wont because you did the same thing as he did only it wasnt about people that are still on here but a couple that left over a year ago.
Why didnt you let the issue with Bevrice and Hunt starve and not add to it?
Why didnt you see the personal attacks done about a few of us Christians in threads we werent even on?
Why didnt you see the many times your iam was ignored...but who starved? The people that are trying to have exactly what you claim to be trying to do.
Enjoying a discussion about our religions without chastising the people in them.

Remember that stupid sports thread debacle last fall between alivenwell and myself?
Again,take the time to look back and see who let that scrap die and tried to heal the wounds from that scrap by being friendly,honest and respectfull.
Then take a look at the one didnt....today in Anybody have question for a pastor?

Its a nice old saying but in the reality of MD it doesnt take two to tango like you said.
It only takes one with a serious problem.

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Sep 18 @ 11:53 PM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
iam01


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Remember that stupid sports thread debacle last fall between alivenwell and myself?

Interesting. You got a problem with alivenwell too? Where did all the gay innuendos come from? Some kind of hillbilly macho cherry pit spitting contest? Brokeback Mountain?
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Sep 19 @ 12:29 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
MrPaul


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IAM doesn't have a life, SOC!
Oh come on iamman has a life He has his magic wand and bag of hate that he carries everywhere he goes on MD. and he does come on MD and wave his little wand and make cool pictures appears .. But Mom is right WE do feed it , iamman is the class clown he acts up, we laugh and it feeds his little ego. Must be sad to have such low self esteem that one acts up for attention
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Sep 19 @ 3:21 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
CPUfan


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Well drawing additional attention to it yourselves is hardly going to help, now is it?

As Mom points out, this whole thread is nothing other than an attempt to fan the flames: "friendship is for morons..." Well what is that friendship exactly if not yet another attempt to form a little self-righteous clique like the one y'all initially sought to have with Anabaptist, the foul-mouthed abuser of Suzie, Bunny and Debs? You did put some distance to that character but hardly with as much energy as you are demonstrating now.

You are also scapegoating MD for your own indulgence in religious controversy. You are putting yourself out there in the public domain simply by posting in it. You might as well be wandering round the streets with a billboard hanging from your neck stating "the end is nigh." For instance, you have repeatedly condemned people who disagree with you to eternal damnation because only your 'scriptural understanding' can be the right one. And while you're fanning the flames of hell, if you don't like the heat, either air the kitchen, leave it or check out your own air conditioning.

Stop playing the innocent bloody martyr... you don't even do it that well.
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Sep 19 @ 7:41 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
yashaenka


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It is recommended that no one reveals anything personal about themselves
It does not take very much information about you for a person on the internet to find out everything about you.
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Sep 19 @ 9:13 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
BandTMom


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Why didnt you let the issue with Bevrice and Hunt starve and not add to it?

That is an entirely different situation and you know it. MOST of us here thought it was pretty funny. MOST of us here didn't start threads and run to the Mods about it. And guess what....when THEY got entirely out of hand, the Mod took care of it. See who's here and who isn't. Trust me, it wasn't' THEIR choice to go.

Why didnt you see the personal attacks done about a few of us Christians in threads we werent even on?

Saw them. Choose not to feed it and guess what??? I don't see those threads still thriving.

Why didnt you see the many times your iam was ignored...but who starved? The people that are trying to have exactly what you claim to be trying to do.

First, he isn't MY Iam. He's a poster on a message board that I USED to like to post in. Frankly, I haven't seen him ignored at all. it's like you can't help yourselves.

Enjoying a discussion about our religions without chastising the people in them.

Don't really get this one but I'm assuming your asking to enjoy a discussion without people chastising you. OPEN YOUR EYES, JANKIA!!! That's 'exactly what I'm trying to do here!!! You are so fixated on things that happened in the past, that you can't see that some of us here have been trying to steer conversations around getting along. It's like stepping in bubble gum. You keeping scraping and scraping yet it's still stuck on the bottom of your shoe.

As far as the sports thing last year.....I was the one who stepped back even though I would have liked to continued to post in there, but instead I had the same old crap following me in there too. So I choose to step back.

You want peace in here, then start contributing to it and quit stirring crap up.
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Sep 19 @ 9:55 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
alivenwell351


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Actually, my comment in the Question for the Pastor thread was meant to be an attempt at sort of backhanded humor...which in retrospect obviously didn't come out that way in print. A one time thing, not any continuation of anything stupid that happened a year ago, that I too, long ago forgot about and haven't said a word about since.

Nope, nothing sinister about it at all. Seemed spur of the moment appropriate. It probably wasn't. My bad.....

I now return you to the persecuted christian network...




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Sep 19 @ 10:02 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
BandTMom


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It funny how most of us have forgotten petty things that happen a year or more ago until someone dredges them back up.
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Sep 19 @ 10:36 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
MrPaul


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Why cant we just agree to disagree on certain points and move on.. Come on people this is the Internet
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Sep 19 @ 11:08 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
BandTMom


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I agree totally. In the long run, what does it matter what virtual people say in a virtual world. It's the "real" world that counts. What we do with our lives in the here and now is what is important...not a silly argument on the Internet.
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Sep 19 @ 11:49 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
iam01


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People divulge personal things about themselves because, like children, they're looking for approval. They have delicate egos. So who's to blame if they get mockery and laughter when what they reveal are pathologies? Christian behavior is ludicrous enough but to include dildos, masturbation, self mortification, self denials of sexual isolation and some scatological references is TMI.
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Sep 19 @ 11:50 AM If you divulge anything personal about your life, you'll regret it.    
Deborah551


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Stop playing the innocent bloody martyr... you don't even do it that well.
Good all around post,CPU, but I really think this sentence sums it up fairly well.

Of course some of you good men + women would not know this. You spend all your time in this one forum. And yet a few of you talk like such big know-it-alls.
It seems that you, SOC, were spending most of your time in R&S. I see you've been in other forums recently, but that wasn't the case initially. I'm in R&S because I like it here. The first five forum topics don't even apply to me and the rest of them have mimimal interest on my part.

[Edited on 9/19/2009 12:04 PM]
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