| Feb 26, 2009 @ 10:58 PM |
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POPO
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I don't associate with men who "need girls to make him feel like a man."
I don't think you associate with men at all, you hate em...  besides men don't like mean women, mama boys do... 
And a man who's with me doesn't get a little girl...he gets a woman...ALL woman.
No he doesn't .....  who you kiddin..  you talk like a trucker act like a biker, and conduct your self like a scorn bitter old wind bag...  and that's your nice side...  your like the site Terrorist...  but I digress.... now say something mean and awful, as you normally do... 
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:07 PM |
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musicianfriend
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Umm..okayyyy?? In my mind, the video was all about degrading women down to the typical stereotype...good only for her boobs, her butt, taking care of housework, being available for a man anytime he wants ..and God forbid she break a nail because her whole world would then come crashing down around her, because she'd be a complete emotional wreck.
Girl....I think you might should go watch the video over again because you have it ALL WRONG!
No where in the video did anyone use T & A to get anything...
And as far as the nail goes...it was Bill breaking a nail..NOT Hillary...Your upset over nothing..
Did you watch the video?
don't have to use my "feminine charm" to do that!
Charm????Where???? I havent seen any feminine charm yet? Only Feminist rage like a roaring lion...
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I just wrote a new version of Helen Redys song...Hope you like it!
I rewrote is as feminism has changed since the original version of this song..I sort of ...updated it!! Enjoy!!
Feminist Helen Redy song...I am Woman~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I am woman....hear me roar....
As I knock down your damn door....
And I smack my loving arm across your face...
I am not a little girl
with a cute head full of curls..
And Ive got a brand new 'friend' to take your place....
I dont need you
I dont need your manshit
All things I can do
so get over there and sit
If I have to...I can do anything.
I am strong....I am invincible
I am WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(Helen Redy) ..
[Edited on 2/26/2009 11:21 PM]
[Edited on 2/26/2009 11:21 PM]
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:11 PM |
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Nightowl001
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You know, when you can't handle a woman disagreeing with you, except by trying to claim how undesirable she is, any other woman can see how you would treat them if they dared to disagree with you.
But then, what do I know? I was only married for 28 years.
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:25 PM |
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MrPaul
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(If she keeps using smileys we'll have to call her Mrs Paul ) No no no Robodad  
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:31 PM |
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musicianfriend
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My mother and father, my grandfather and grandmother taught me how to hammer in a nail, paint, hang wallpaper, fix a toilet, rewire a lamp, and a myriad of other things.
I can do all that too..No one taught me..I just learned on my own.
Loreli, eastham and pomegranate......definitely my kind of female! Not making a pass here...! Just stating I like a woman that can help to do the things I do! It shows there is and can be a working relationship in more ways than one!
I am so glad you 3 posted these last posts. Because I was just going to post what I thought would make a good companion for a man!
Thats the wonderful plan...a man for every woman and a woman for every man...Cool!!
Some men like femininity and fluff...I do when the time calls for it! But, most of the time work is called for and fluffiness is not the answer for getting things done!
Just because we are 'fluffy' doesnt meant we cant work...
Actually, I have a business in a man dominated field....
I live on a farm...I know what hard work is ....but I also know my physical limits....
Plus...I dont know everything...
Id rather as some of the 'fluffy' girls like myself have said...Id rather cook them food in exchange for work..
Like Dukums said...he do anything for a homecooked meal...Single men love to eat homecooked food cooked by beautiful sexy women!!!
I used to make chocolate cookies for my brother if he would change my oil......He was happy and so was I...
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:34 PM |
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MrPaul
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(...Single men love to eat homecooked food cooked by beautiful sexy women!!!) What time is dinner ?
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:51 PM |
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musicianfriend
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Hi there Texas!!!! Welcome!!!!
Blu...you have a point!
I'd rather change the tire and fix the toilet and let HIM fix me a nice home-cooked meal.
Edit:
Actually, that's not true either. I really enjoy cooking. Let's see...what do I not particularly like to do? Oh, I know! Vacuum. He can vacuum the entire house, while I go out and mow the lawn. Sounds fair enough to me!
Forget the tire changing...Never!
But I like your idea about him doing the vacuuming....
And if I put on a sexy little dress..perhaps I can get him to mow my lawn as well...
Then I can have more time to cook that awesome home cooked meal he wants...with a little 'girly' show just for kicks as well!!! Dinner and a movie!! With me as the star.. LOL It will definatly be a fun nite!!!
After all...Men are visual!! Thank God they are!! LOL
See, I'm the opposite...I would like to cook and clean and give him a nice (microwave) meal when he gets home. Then the rest of the night is all about him...
That is what makes me that old fashioned kind of girl that you're not!
Angel girl??? Are you serious??? YOu are so funny!!!!
We should talk and perhaps Mom and I will share some great receipies with you...
Perhaps Pom will as well as we now know she likes to cook and one who likes to cook...usually cooks well!!
So many different woman...all so different from each other...
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| Feb 26, 2009 @ 11:53 PM |
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robodad
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^Gee, Paul only used one smiley
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:20 AM |
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MrPaul
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I joined Icons Anonymous, Icons Anonymous® is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from iconism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using icons. There are no dues or fees for I A membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. I A is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy, neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay icon free and help other iconolics to achieve freedom from icons.       OH sheet I backslid
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:26 AM |
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Angel54214
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...and it only takes one, then your hooked! 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:28 AM |
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MrPaul
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Hi Angel 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:31 AM |
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Angel54214
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I believe men tolerate women in charge pretty well. Especially the frilly kitchen curtains, the hot rollers and curling irons on the bathroom sink (still plugged in), along with the panty hose hanging over the shower curtain. Not to exclude the fingernail polish on HIS dresser. And the dash for the remote control after dinner to watch those drama shows. Then all she has to do is say good night honey, I have a headache!
MrPaul
Hooked On Iconics!
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:35 AM |
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MrPaul
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(Then all she has to do is say good night honey, I have a headache!) NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:40 AM |
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Angel54214
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Just slipped that in to see if you actually read my post....and you did! 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:45 AM |
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kjac
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Wow, you guys really will turn any thread into a childish argument.
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 12:51 AM |
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MrPaul
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Kjac.........(.Angel girl??? Are you serious??? YOu are so funny!!!!
We should talk and perhaps Mom and I will share some great receipies with you...
Perhaps Pom will as well as we now know she likes to cook and one who likes to cook...usually cooks well!!
So many different woman...all so different from each other) looks like they are doing fine 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 2:16 AM |
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pomegranate
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MF, POPO, Mr. Paul, Blue, Etc., keep your snotty lies and innuendos about me to your damn selves...whatever I may be, it hasn't affected my ability to attract men, so pissonya!
I've been strong and independant for over four years...I get what you are saying...I can do that. But, I agree with mom, sometimes I just get tired and want to be that little girl and have someone take care of me. Don't you get tired of being strong all the time?
I know I don't want to be a "little girl" who requires being taken care of by her "daddy" figure.
Do I get tired of being strong all the time?
No; I've been strong all my life. I don't know any other way to be.
Now, if the question were simply asking if I get tired...oh hell yeah, I do. But that doesn't mean I need some man to "protect" me. I enjoy cooking and sometimes I'd cook for us and sometimes he'd cook for us, if he enjoyed it as well. I don't do it trying to fufill my domestic duties as a woman trying to please her "may-yan," however.
It also doesn't mean (MF) that I'm about to do sexual favors for a man in order to get my oil changed. I don't have to. I don't need to. If I want my oil changed, and don't want to do it myself...all I have to do is ASK a any number of male friends I have and they're always happy to do it for me..no sexual favors in return, no prancing around in a little black dress, no leaning over the hood of the car in a low-cut sweater...no shaking my tailfeathers like a peahen in heat...not then, and not for that reason.
I guess I'm just too proud and have too much self-respect and dignity to accept goods or money or services in exchange for sexual favors. I don't believe sex is a commodity to be bought and sold. If I want to have sex with a man, and he with me...then THAT's what it's about...it's not about teasing a man and using my body and the promise of a BJ in order to cajole the poor sucker into getting him to do something for me that I --- "boo hoo hoo" --- can't do for myself.
I just don't believe in manipulating men that way. And I know for many women, because they know how much men like "it," they will use "it" to get men to perform like trained dogs for them. Well, I just don't feel that's the right way to treat a man. Never have..never will.
But some men do like being led around by their ...um...the bullring in their noses, I suppose. Makes them feel special, if a woman gives them any amount of attention at all. Hey, if I wanted to, I could get my entire yard landscaped, house cleaned, car maintained, shopping done, cooking, laundry, etc. by offering promises of a "big night" for any number of gullible men....but to be honest with you, I don't want men whose self-worth is tied into how gullible he is and how easily he can fall into a woman's trap to use him, rather than just spend time with him because I like HIM, and not what he can do for me.
So sue me. That's just how I am...
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 2:22 AM |
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kjac
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A recent study stated that men see women in bikinis as objects.
That may be, but women in bikinis see men as ATM machines.
Who's really in charge in that scenario?
WHAT IF WOMEN WERE IN CHARGE?
They already are. 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 6:01 AM |
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BandTMom
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Pom said:
I just don't believe in manipulating men that way. And I know for many women, because they know how much men like "it," they will use "it" to get men to perform like trained dogs for them. Well, I just don't feel that's the right way to treat a man. Never have..never will.
Who's manipulating here? Just because a woman is feminine and enjoys doing things for her man who in turn enjoys doing things for her does not require manipulating. It's called sharing. It's called love and respect for one another and each others differences.
Men and women are like magnets. If you put the right ends together, they stick together ad hold. The wrong ends push each other away and no amount of pushing can make them go together.
I want to be the South end of his North end. 
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| Feb 27, 2009 @ 7:15 AM |
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SimplyImp
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What if women were in charge? In charge of what?
I'm in charge of myself. Any men in my life are in charge of themselves. If they like to do oil changes, great - do it. If not, the local garage will do it for a nominal fee if I don't want to.
Although not blessed or cursed (however you want to look at it) with an over-abundance of T&A, I have not ever resorted to using those things as "collateral". That does not mean that men do not find me sexy or attractive. I have been "arm candy" on more than one occasion.
Yes, I like getting dressed up and being feminine. I like the interaction between men and women. I like cooking, but I also like gardening, and cleaning stalls, looking after the horses. I can drive the lawn tractor, just as well as anyone can. I could do an oil change if I wanted to. I can fix fences, use a wood lathe, make picture frames, paint trim, clean eaves, etc.
Point is, I don't want to and I don't like to. But I'm not using my T&A to have it done either. Trading a home-cooked meal for an oil change? Hmm... yeah, okay, as long as that's all they think their getting, and not me as dessert afterwards.
So, I hire people to do those jobs that I don't want to, because I don't want to "owe" anyone. Any men in my life, know without a doubt how special they are. Because we communicate - with our minds, body language and touch.
Neither one of us is "in charge" of the other. It is a partnership - where everything is shared or compromised. He wants to be the DIY'er - great, I'll be the helper. Everything is shared - domestic and otherwise.
Do I behave like a man? Absolutely not - there is no doubt that I am all woman. And for that special someone, he will be shown how much. One thing is for darn certain though - any man that cannot stimulate my brain is not going to stimulate anything else.
But in my humble opinion, using T&A to get what you want sometimes gets you into something you don't want. IMO it's an abuse of power - and leads to other forms of manipulation and abuse. A good relationship is not based on manipulation, it's based on mutual respect.
For those men I'm interested in for a relationship - flirtation and male/female interaction - absolutely. But to use men (I'm not interested in other than as friends) to get them to do things for me with T&A - not even a consideration.
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