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luvmycats
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Some of you already know my story, some of you know parts. I want to share some of it with you and hope that you can feel my happiness. I also want to give hope to those that are still searching.
Two years ago October 15, I became a widow.
I became physically ill from the pain. I also
became worried about my mind. (I am bi polar, stress is not good)
I admitted myself into the mental hospital.
After being there for a couple hours, I realized that was not
what I needed. After talking to the Dr. the next morning, he
agreed with me, and sent me home. It was just the grief.
As the days passed, I had to face life, and began going through
his things. I discovered many secrets he had kept from me, and
they broke my heart all over again. I was a mess. I looked, and
looked for help. There is very little out there.
I was isolated up here 80 miles from my family and friends. I
intentionally didn't make any friends when I fell in love and
moved up here. I didn't want to get my heart
broken when I left. We had decided when our kids were out of school,
we were moving down near my family. We had already bought the
property to build a house on.
I continued to look for help in every way I could. I finally
was able to go back to work, and a man I worked with told me
about MD. I signed up, and began lurking. I decided there were
some really nice people here, and reached out to them by writing
blogs about what I was going through.
So many of you showed how much you care for other human beings.
You reached out to me, and helped me through the hardest time of
my life. I have become very good friends with some of you, kinda
lost touch with others. (not that I have forgotten you)
You made me realize, that I could have all of you as friends, and
no matter where I ended up, I could take you with me.
I am about to embark on that journey.
On Sept. 14th of last year, I disagreed with a gentlemans comment
on a blog. I emailed him and told him so. He emailed me back,
explaining how he had come to his conclusion. We looked at each others
profiles, and realized we could have written them for each other.
Things progressed to chatting on Yahoo, then to the hours long phone
calls every night. On Nov. 30th, he came up here to visit. It was
magical! We "knew" for sure then, that it was real.
I went down and spent 8 days with him a couple weeks ago, and he is
coming back up here in May. I will be moving down there this fall.
Yes, he lives 1,000 miles away from me, but
I was already planning on moving to FL when my son graduates in May.
The Lord put us in each others path, there can't be any other explanation.
I didn't know I could ever be this happy. He is so much more than
I ever dreamed a man could be. He treats me with so much respect,
he listens to me, he dreams with me, he is romantic, considerate,
caring, compassionate, understanding, (he even laughs at my silliness)
I could go on and on about what a wonderful man he is.
Just know, it is possible, and we are proof.
May you all find the happiness that we have.
Duvvy, I love you with all my heart, and can't wait until we can be together all the time. 
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| Mar 10 @ 9:20 AM |
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graywolf
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luv, wishing you and duvvy the best of everything and may you both spend the rest of your years pampering each other. 
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| Mar 10 @ 9:24 AM |
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luvmycats
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Thank you Gray. I didn't mention that. We do like to pamper and spoil each other. 
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| Mar 10 @ 9:25 AM |
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Loreli
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 That is so sweet!
(not the hard times-the rest of the story)
Having known you closely for a long time, I can say he is a very lucky man.
I wish you both all of the best 
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| Mar 10 @ 9:41 AM |
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luvmycats
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Thank you Loreli. If I hadn't gone through those hard times, I maybe wouldn't appreciate him as much as I do. Thank you for standing by me during those times. 
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| Mar 10 @ 10:00 AM |
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donna65806
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wishing much happiness to you and duvvy
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| Mar 10 @ 10:10 AM |
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pamdemonium
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Luvy...yours is a story worth hearing. I'm so happy for you and Duvvy...and wish you every happiness, every joy, every blessing.
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| Mar 10 @ 10:19 AM |
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CPUfan
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 Me too you two... I'm really pleased you've found happiness... you deserve it
Hope you'll keep on visiting us in the Katt's thread... otherwise we'll miss you so much... cheerful greetings from England.
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| Mar 10 @ 10:24 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Luvs You know I wish you nothing but happiness and it looks like you have found it..  heres to many many many more years of FINDING happiness with each other
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| Mar 10 @ 10:30 AM |
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daisy315
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you deserve this.. and so much more hon...
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| Mar 10 @ 12:45 PM |
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kattsmeow
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The Lord put us in each others path, there can't be any other explanation.
You know how I feel about it right?
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery:
Love is the strange bewilderment which overtakes one person on account of another person.
James Thurber and E.B. White:
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I Corinthians 13:4-8
That one was in our marriage vows^^^^^
Congratulation to you both. ~~ Sniff~~ Anyone got a kleenex now??
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| Mar 10 @ 1:38 PM |
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luvmycats
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Thank you all so much. Never in my wildest dreams, could I have ever hoped, to be this happy! He has taught me what true unselfish love really is.
Becky, Daisy and Katt, you are 3 of the ones that have seen me through this entire transformation.
I love you guys!
Thank you Donnna.
Pam, you came in a little later, but I do so much enjoy your banter. Thats one of the things that kept me coming back here too. I needed to learn to laugh again, and the people here helped me realize it was OK!
Don't worry CPU, I'm not going anywhere. I have too many wonderful friends here.
Katt, I may have to borrow a couple of those. 
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| Mar 10 @ 2:21 PM |
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cartay25
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What a heart breaking and heart warming story all rolled up into one. I wish you both the best of luck and my heart felt wishes for a wonderful life together.
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| Mar 10 @ 3:38 PM |
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luvmycats
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Thank you Car. I am still amazed, and probably always will be. He also believes in keeping the magic alive.
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| Mar 10 @ 5:41 PM |
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BandTMom
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Luvvy, words cannot say how absolutely happy I am for you.
You deserve to be this. You've been through more that most people and now you have found your home.
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| Mar 10 @ 5:44 PM |
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Luckygem
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I couldnt stop crying then smiling through all of this, you hav enspired me to never give up hope........I wish you both the very BEST and it is only going to get better and better as time passes on...............
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| Mar 10 @ 6:51 PM |
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Angel178
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I wish you worlds of happieness. You deserve it!
I believe all things happen for a reason! It's obvious you found your soul mate!
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| Mar 10 @ 7:58 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Luvvy, hugs and kisses and many, many good wishes for both of you. The hard parts of our lives really are the foundation for the good parts, you're right, it helps us appreciate them all the more!
May the worst of the days ahead of you be better than the best that are behind you!
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| Mar 10 @ 9:19 PM |
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misschoos
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That is so nice to hear, I wish you all the very best for the future.
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| Mar 11 @ 12:32 AM |
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kattsmeow
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Katt, I may have to borrow a couple of those
Please do!
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